Basically me and this girl have been seeing this girl for like 3 months, we've slept together and agreed that we don't want anything serious! She's said she's never had a serious relationship and never gave the time of day for guys except for me! Now I don't want this girl as my girlfriend, but I want to know how do I get her to that place! It's annoying that I can get her to fall for me, it's playing with my head! Any suggestions???

What do you need? A ring?
3 months is still all brand new, if she's exclusively sleeping with you, and often, it will progress naturally.

If you push, you'll fuck it up! You will come off as needy, and clingy.

Your starting to think “I don’t want to play games with this chick. I like her. Why can’t I just let her know.”
“This girl is different, I don’t have to play games with her.”


DO NOT convince yourself that she is different.
SHE IS NOT DIFFERENT.

She wants to chase you. She wants a challenge. She wants a guy she cannot completely figure out.
A lot guys think that when I say you can’t express interest this means you can’t let a girl know you are attracted to her.

WRONG.

You HAVE to let her know you are attracted to her. To do this you need to know how to talk to women.
Express your sexual intent and attraction all you want.
That is perfectly fine.

But, don’t let her know you want more than that.
You have to be stone cold impossible to read.
Every time she leaves you she should be wondering if she will ever see you again. She should be wondering how much you like her. She should be wondering if you’re seeing other girls.
Let her wonder.

The more time she sits around wondering what you’re doing… the more she begins to convince herself she is in love with you.

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To be fair, I've been doing most of those things! I told her yesterday that it would be a stupid idea for me to let her be my gf! She said ahh charming! And I even told her that would she get pissed off if I was getting with another girl, she said 'I dunno I haven't been put in that situation'! So I should just txt her less, even though I hardly txt her???

Just don't start over thinking.
If what you are doing is working why the fuck would you want to change that?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

But we agreed yesterday that we didn't want anything serious! I just think that was a little bit bullshit from both our parts, I just what to know how to get her to transition from not wanting me as bf to def wanting me as a bf?

It is, and was Bullshit.
She already is, just wait, she'll let you know.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

So just wait her out, if that's the way, I'll just keep doing what I'm doing!

Yes. Your will is stronger.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Will she give off any signs? Sorry mate just curious?

Yes.

1. She will throw more 'shit tests' at you.
2. She will become more openly affectionate.
3. More shit tests.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Shit tests like what? Sorry I keep bugging you

I don't know the exact type her devious little mind will come up with, the important thing is to recognize them, and deflect them like a punch from an 8 year old girl.

Read.



how-to-handle-shit-tests-in-relationships-vt124540.html

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

We haven't txt each other in 4 days and saw last night in a bar and we didn't speak! Shit test? And yes I'm already looking for my next target

Don't know if to txt her 'mine tonight?' Or am I just being too needy?

Calling out a booty call isn't being needy. The implication should be for sex!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.