| Wait, so someone was saying this is wrong?
Of course it's fine to lose interest when someone tells you they're unavailable. Unless you're really just looking for a friend, or a someone to crochet with on Sunday afternoons when you approach women, it's perfectly normal.
If you're searching for a red sports car to buy, and you go to a dealership and ask them to show you theirs and they tell you that they only sell green 4-door sedans, do you keep looking around for another hour at cars you have no interest in, or do you go down the street to a place you think might actually sell red sports cars?
I'm not interested in attached women 99% of the time. Unless they're a professional contact, seem like they'd make an interesting friend, or I'm willing to keep them around as an acquaintance (with no expectations) in the event they become unattached, I feel no obligation to feign interest in a woman I only have sexual or romantic designs on. Let their gay friends be the guys the complain about their problems to, not you. If any women actually think this is "unfair" SPAM, it's because they're trying to get some poor suckers to wipe their asses for them while they bang other dudes who don't put up with their shit. Just like how many women use "AFCs" as meal tickets. They need someone to get free meals/attention/help from for FREE, because they know they have a pussy that they can use to sucker men into giving them what they want. Don't fall for it unless you want to be a chump. You just want to get laid, stop being ashamed, there's nothing wrong with it. Own it, and if anyone else (even a woman) has problem with it, your attitude towards them should essentially be "get lost!".
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