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This might work, I think you can probably do this without cutting her off as well, but it's been a while since College and I've only slept with four or five College girls in the past 6 months as they're not generally the girls I hang with much anymore, so maybe College girls are more susceptible to these kinds of weird moves considering they are still young and are more likely to be insecure.

I'd continue to be friendly back off with the flirting mostly but still shoot a small message once in a while, I wouldn't rearrange my life for her and still walk with her as long as you're not going out of your way to do it which is kind of rearranging things for her on the other end of the spectrum. And I'd definitely not skip class.

I'd personally get to know her and build a friendship to improve my inner circle and possibly meet more women through her. This is considering that she has a boyfriend. I don't think it's wrong to sleep with a girl with a boyfriend, (it's the girls thing as she should break up with him if she's still sexually open to other guys) however it's a little bit of unwanted baggage that I'd rather not bother with, albeit a little, however there are just so many beautiful beautiful single women out there that I'd rather not deal with it.

Maybe this helps a little.

Thanks for the reply. I don't plan to cut her off. Just need her to see I am not some scrub who will keep chasing. This is why I will do the push pull method. And I'm pretty sure this works on all girls not just college girls. I'm sure you've experienced this where a girl is all on you then for some strange reason she backs off and then you miss it and question it. Just sparks emotions and confusion which is good. I know she is interested, just her boyfriend coming back into her life obviously made her focus switch to him. Perfectly normal, I would do the same if it were me in her shoes. I know it is wrong morally what I am doing but to be honest I live my life and do what is best for me. Call me selfish and cliché but you only live once. I try to live without regrets and take every chance I get. Not a huge chance of this happening but what if this girl is the girl I end up marrying. Just a thought you know, even though its rare to happen. Lets say she cheats on him with me and still wants him in the end. This will make their relationship stronger. Its endless arguments for this type of stuff.

You're right everyone likes a little push pull, however this can be done in an innumerable amount of ways. I wouldn't rearrange my schedule or routines for this effect instead I'd find other ways to do it. However if your walks together aren't the most convenient way to go to your classes then I'd understand why you would stop doing this as there is no reason to inconvenience yourself for anyone you don't genuinely care about, but this goes for skipping class as well. I think this independence comes naturally as inner game develops, something we are all working on.

Who's to say that there is less opportunity in friendship with this girl. Less strings, you get to meet the friends and get a larger social circle.

However I understand, as when I was in College, I wasn't having sex all the time, so I tried to take every lemon and have sex with it if it was cute.

What kind of push pull would you suggest? What I suggested were just the ones that would be really simple for me to do. I'm always open to others though, you can never have enough tricks up your sleeve is what I always say.

Something I might do is get to know some of the other people in the class or strike up friendly conversations with other people. Don't game other women as many people can easily come off creepy doing this. If she wants to join in the convo's cool but you don't necessarily have to give her precedence over anyone else that you're talking to. Still be friendly with her and don't act different but spread out a little bit. This adds to your opportunities of meeting people and will give you a little more power. For example maybe you want to ask someone else a question about something as opposed to giving a complete answer or reaction to a statement she made that might not warrant all of your attention. while doing this you can continue building a relationship with her.

Also you can stretch out in other ways, by focusing more on getting a better grade or another girl you've met that you're texting. This allows natural opportunities to pick and choose (or push pull) what to react to in your interactions with her.


Once inner game has been developed this becomes easy. But the inner game conversation is another thing in itself.