i am feeling so depressed but i know PUA teaches freedom from outcome but i just couldn't manage..here is a detailed writing of how i reached here...met HB10 online..she is a complete stunner..she then had a boyfriend who was by the way a big time player..she dumped him after she caught him cheating as she said..i then went on two dates with her and caught feelings..a lot of kino but no kiss close yet..so two days after our second date she texts me saying she is again talking to her ex and that he is sorry about how he treated her..she says she didn't break up with him,only that they took a break..she also says she likes both i and her ex...she says she wants to continue dating me....what should i do??? should i accept that kind of offer? i saw it as insulting and i do plan on freezing her out...what are your thoughts brothers...it devastated me to be honest..

You sound a little too invested in her for being just a couple dates in.

If you can convert her to a fuck buddy, wonderful - though that does not seem to be what you want (or you wouldn't be so torn up about it). You'd need to accept her terms for this, and not spent a whole lot of money on your outings... Drinks and sex. That's it.

If you accept those terms and don't get fucked out of the deal, then you can bet her ex is the one fucking her, and you're just paying for her fun.

i froze her out today and she did not intiate anything....before the dates she was telling me she won't tolerate cheating....so after our dates she was like i forgave him lol..so how exactly should i keep gaming her? should i wait till she initiates anything(which i doubt she will...she does not look like the type that will chase plus she has loads of guys chasing after her probably she will forget about me) or should i iniate myself? and how should i take it forward? by the way this chick refuses isolation so i dont know how am gonna fuck her..what should i say incase she initiates contact? by the way the reason why i froze her out was because she uploaded a picture of her ex on facebook with the captions "there is noone like you" and just hours before that on our date she was like you are amazing blah blah you are the kind of guy i want to spend the rest of my life with..so i found t disrespectful that she will start talking about an abusive ex immediately after we had a date..and then give me terms..that is what pissed me off.by the way i did not show any anger i just told her i was surprised that she would start talking about her ex immediately after our date..tell me what to do guys i am confused.

Get some self-respect! You obviously have boundaries, but you are too confused and/or seduced by her beauty to gather the strength you need to mark the line. Make it clear to her that she has stepped over it. Tell her that you are not interested in dating her as long as she is seeing her ex, but that she is welcome to call you when she have made up her mind, if you want to give her another chance. Personally, I would move on with other girls, because it seems to me as if she doesn't have any pride or self-respect herself, fiddling around with her ex like that - which is a big fat warning sign saying "I mean nothing but trouble, stay away".

thanks hugge..i will definately freeze her out.

Walk away from this one bro...shes trouble and will have you an emotional wreck.