So I seen this HB the other day, and we chatted a bit at Starbucks then drove around for a bit (I didn't really know my way around her town lol) I cold read her, teased her, built attraction, comfort, etc. made great eye contact. Eventually we ate, I said lets split a hamburger she said ok, when it came time to order she didn't wanna eat so I just got fries. I talked with her for a bit, discussed that I'm independent (she said that was a huge turn on) I'm a leader - demonstrated all those things.

We leave, I look at her and said, "I remember you saying how down to earth you are I hv to hug you for that" her body language was open. I hug her then keep my hands around her, I pick her up and them she tried to pick me up a few times - didn't work lol. I kept eye contact and my hands around her, she said is this where you kiss me? I said, "Do you want me to kiss you?" She was shy and shrugged but then kissed me, I stopped her half way and said we're moving too fast. But kept going, pressed her up against my car put her hands against the door and kissed her, eventually she said I know too many people around here can we go inside your car? I said ya, we went in the back seat and it got more physical she was getting so turned on she wanted to stop lol I said I understand, and kept stimulating her.

Eventually she said she had to go but kept kissing me then I took control and stopped her and said I had to go. Good move? I told why are you still kissing me I gtg ha! So I held her after that, and told her I didn't like her cause of looks but cause of her personally then I said dont get me wrong your cute and I said all the unique physical things about her - then personality stuff.

We talked about the future etc, and then I dropped her home before kissing her and making her want more. And saying I wanted to show her songs and future projection stuff. I wanted to avoid buyers remorse.

I tell her to msg me on the IM msg'er we met on (she didnt feel comfortable giving me her # or fb) when she gets home. She did. I tell her gn. The day after I say this, "I so hate you right now lol " I was gonna follow it up with a pull but she didn't respond. How come and how do I play this?

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I tried to avoid buyers remorse, idk why that happened. How should I play this situation? Txt her in a few days saying?..

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Not too sure why you didn't go all the way...She wasn't giving you buyers remorse at all.

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We only know each other for an hour or so and she wanted to stop, I personally don't like making people do things they don't want to do. I feel if I pressed forward she would hv stopped all together. I'm gonna hit her up tomorrow I guess just pretending like she never ignored my first msgs? Like ping her

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Note sure why you stopped either you had her in the back seat, she kissed you first then you decided to pumped the breaks? Next time keep going until she says "no". You should also never say this is moving to fast as that is what you want to happen.

I agree with you that it's not always necessary to push until she says no. Unless you missed out on some social cues implying that you guys were probably about to sleep together. Was she completely open to all your advances prior to putting on the breaks without any resistance? If so then she might have been in the mood and became disappointed that you put the breaks on. Did she stop to look you in the eyes to tell you that she had to go...then continue kissing you? If so then it probably didn't hurt to stop it. However if she said that she had to go while you two were kissing without eye contact (as if it wasn't that important), could have meant she was ready for sex.

Another possibility is that she got back with an ex or someone she really likes and has rapport with.