I am new to this so bare with me but I know one of you geniuses will have a quick answer for me.

I am 20 years old and go to a community college.. Everyone pretty much sucks and can't manage to maintain C's and work 10 hours a week.. let alone drink or have a social life.. Well I am maintaining A's, working and still have ample amounts of time to drink.. I have never really been that concerned with hooking up with chicks because I really didn't give a fuck but now looking back on it I had some hot as girls I probably could have fucked but just didn't pursue it.. but now I am pissed off with one thing on my mind and that is bagging as many girls as I can..

Here's my situation:

About a year ago I met this chick at a party who was SUPER hot that went to my school and is way too hot for me or as I thought.. (I am 6'3" 230lbs and I'm kind of fat but IDK that might just be a confidence thing).. anyways I found out she had a boyfriend right away and he went to school far away but this kid looked like Mconahay so I just said fuck it and decided I had no shot.. She is the type of a girl who should be partying in hollywood so as you can tell the community college life does not impress her.. Luckily for me I am one of the most fun people I know and she realized that.. Anyways one of her friends wanted to fuck me so I continued to chill with them (I never did anything with any of her friends) .. being the sly person I am I friended the target so I could get rid of the brute that wanted to fuck me and it worked, I would only contact the target when it was time to drink (for the record every time we hang out we drink and I mean a lot).. Heres where things get interesting (also keep in mind we have only hung out maybe 10 times in the past year and we only text when its time to get fucked up so I'm not completely friendzoned) ... I found out that she broke up with her boyfriend about 3 months (in December) and we had not hung out since that time until about 3 weeks ago when she randomly texted me a 4pm on a friday saying she wants to drink right now.. I love to booze so I went over there as fast as i could which was 630pm.. Before i came over i asked if i could stay at her place because i wasn't going to drive home drunk and she said yes.. but i didn't know if anyone else was staying there so i was being agressive, i crash there a lot.. We start drinking alone and then one of her girlfriends come over.. (NOTE: every time i hang out with her she always makes sex jokes or references to me but I just disregard it because I assumed that is the way she was but actually I have never heard her say it to anyone else.. she gives me a nickname like a fucked up pronunciation of my name.. she does a lot of other shit but just note that she is kind of wild).. So us 3 are drinking and the girls do there girl shit, get ready and we left to a house party, I made sure to not be one of the girls thank god.. We get to this party and everyone is drinking and getting hammered.. the target this whole time was just getting everyone wasted and not hitting on any guys.. meanwhile her friend who was pregaming with us was going on me but I took a piss and she ended up throwing up haha so that didn't happen.. the target came up to me casually alone through out the night just asking whats up type of shit.. I was not that interested because at this time I wasn't trying to fuck her.. So I am in the laundry room with this random girl that the target doesn't know and lets just say I was 60 seconds from making out with her and 5 minutes from fucking her on the washer haha.. the target comes in and says were leaving back to her house because shes hungry.. I was so fucked up that I didn't even bother to get the other girls number.. we go back to her house us 3 and the other girl passes out... the target says shes hungry and asked if i wanted any food.. I said sure.. we ate then she asked if I wanted to go watch bridesmates.. she convinced me and we walked down stairs and got on the couch.. Now I was so drunk that I actually had the mindset of watching the fucking movie.. I don't know who sat down first so I know I fucked that one up but we ended on opposite sides of the couch.. she was up for like 15 minutes then rolled over and passed out.. then I passed out.. The next morning I fucking realized how big of a fucking idiot I was for not making a move..

Anyways now we have been trying to hang out for the past 3 weeks but she keeps fucking backing out and she has reasonable excuses but that is not like her.. or maybe it is just now its pissing me off.. Anyways we are hanging out this weekend and that is a fact.. most likely with a group of people..

Besides just going in to kiss her does anyone have any recommendations?? Like what if this is just one big fucking coincindence and she doesn't want to fuck?? I guess I don't really care she is kind of fucking boring at times.. I just need to fuck this girl so I can move the fuck on!! I feel like a waste of fucking sperm!! I need to redeem myself.. I will answer questions because although this is a lot of info I left out a lot of other shit

What is wrong with you? You are setting yourself up for some hardcore blue balls. You need to fuck her? What is she like your lifeline to pussy or something? Take a step back before you start fucking up any more. You aren't entitled to shit, remember that. She probably doesn't want to waster her time, since you didn't make a move back then, or maybe she is busy and can't meet up. You are focusing too much on this one girl and how much you screwed up. It happens to everyone on this board. Live and learn. Either give it some time until she says yes or pick up your blue balls and go chase another tail.

It took me three months to fuck this one girl ( no we were not dating or spending too much time with each other). Basically I only saw this girl a few times a month, she knew what I wanted, and I knew I would have to go through bullshit. One random night she initiates the whole sex thing, so my waiting paid off. The key things here was that I didn't focus on this girl, I had other girls that I was seeing during those six months. It didn't seem long to me since I was being occupied elsewhere. If I kept up your bullshit with the whole i need to fuck this girl, I would have probably never fucked her.

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