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Do you guys can give me some ideas how to make the conversation flow after opening her. I usually get stuck after a while and run out thigs to say.. pls help
i struggled with this for a long time. it's still a work in progress, but i'm much better than i was a few years ago. the primary thing is to try and put yourself out of your comfort zone more frequently during the day. chat up random people you encounter (bus driver, girl in line at the grocery store, etc). you might be a great conversationalist with your friends and co-workers, but until you can strike up a random conversation with a random person, you aren't going to be able to do it effectively with random girls at a party or club.
another big thing is actively listening to the woman you're talking to. often times women give you everything you need (unless you're talking to one with zero personality) to have a good conversation. for me personally i would spend so much time in my own head thinking about my next line or story that i completely ignored what she was telling me. if you ask her a question, listen to her answer and try and pick out different facts or themes that she gives you about her personality and expand.