2 questions here.

scenario:
today I approached a girl who was sitting outside a restaurant having food. I tried talking to her, my opening being "why do you hate your job?" she said "I dont hate my job" then things quickly turned into an argument and it got messy.

then out of nowhere, she says "um....yeah....I am actually waiting for my husband right now"
is this another way of saying "get the fuck away from me"? or am I just being too negative?

What is a good response to that? is this good: "that's such a lame excuse, most people say I am waiting for my BOYFRIEND not husband"

so 2 questions
1) most people think I am being serious about my opening joke, which makes things messy. How come they dont understand I am just joking?
2) what is a good response to the "husband" excuse?

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A few things:

There is a distinct possibility she actually IS married. You need to accept that some women are legitimately not available, or even if it was an excuse that they may simply find you unattractive or your opener lame.

Some women don't get your sense of humor. Some women think you are ugly. Some women are actually married and happy. Some are all three. Get over it and abort. Stop letting it damage your ego by accusing her of being "lame". Blow it off, realize it wasn't meant to be with her and hit on someone else.

IMHO, that line is super lame and juvenile, which may have had something to do with it. Sort of like that stupid joke every boy made to his friends in middle school: "Hey, do your parents know you're gay?".

Some people aren't up for that. Makes you sound like you're an adolescent.

well, I don't think it's the lack of humor on their part. I understand some people simply have no sense of humor, but the number of people who dont get my jokes are a lot more than they should be.

I will give you another fresh example, just happened couple of weeks ago. I walked up to a girl and said "why is it that the women in this area tend to be more attractive?"
Obviously, I am not a researcher and I am not really trying to find the reason. But she started explaining how it's about the demographics and blah blah.
everybody thinks I am being serious.

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Hey bart

Start off on a positive foot always!

Do you really think someone wants to have a conversation about something hey "Hate". Anything you talk with someone about will be tied into their subconscious fill cabinet about you. So talking to a girl about things she hates, will associate "hateful" feelings toward you. Is that what you want ?

What feelings do you want a girl to associate with you? Start the convo there.

Something like "Hey, you lovely today .. I'm Bart "

It may seem soft, but that shit works man. Be confident,yet gentle.

Great job making the move though man. Good to see you getting into dialogs with women.

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