Been trying to move forward with this girl for about a month now.

Met this girl at a function. She gave me IOIs and we had a picture together on her phone. I was too busy to make a move back then and did not think much of it.

We had a common friend and she added me on FB a few days later. She's a looker so decided to game her. Initial chats were good, very interesting. Spaced out a few days. She'd like my posts and I would like hers too.Then I got busy and went cold for a week. Tried to re-engage but lost momentum. Convos go dead and she would not like my posts.

Flirted her a bit on her wall. She flirted back and things got interesting, her coworkers even took notice and called her out, teasing her.

Got her number, tried asking her out for dinner on the same day. No dice, she said her schedule was messed up and that we should perhaps reschedule.

I freeze her out for a week. Friday comes and I try asking her again, texted her saying I'm off to a parkour event and I had an extra invite if she wants to come. No response.

The next day she posts an update on FB, she's at a company event. I was thinking maybe I needed to show that I'm still interested so I liked some of her stuff and chatted her. Just small talk, about 4-5 exchanges worth. I let it hang on her last response.

A few notes:
- I would always go first in opening conversation. She never engages first.
- She is physically attractive, and has a lot of admirers.
- She is in sales. While that is different from being a hired gun I would imagine the ability to convince others plus her loooks makes it somewhat similar

Right now I'm not sure what to do. If I were to go by my own feel I would either:

1. Call her after 3-4 days and say I was in town and invite her to dinner (not my ideal day 1)
2. Wait for Friday and ask her for lunch (or should it be dinner?) on Saturday

Should I chat her to show interest while waiting to setup a meeting? Is this a good way to move forward? Any better suggestions?

FUCK!!!!

Sarge 100 other women. Stop wasting your time and effort on this girl. When a girl likes you, she'll even absent herself from work just to be with you.

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SHIT!!!!

Sure thing man, I got one that I can even bang right now and another one who wants me to move in with her, but I want some advise on this one and not the other 99 that I am sarging.

I really suck at this text/online shit.

Ignore this girl and post hot pictures of yourself. None of those needy half naked, shirts off selfies showing off your gym body. Make something like this:



Get a big metal belt buckle and put shiny things near your crotch. Maybe place a Schublig in there and ask a professional photographer to take your picture carefully accentuating your bulging cock.

When she starts communicating with you again, go for the date.

Oh, embed this video for good measure.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EMhGSOk1mb4[/youtube]

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Wait for Friday to 'ask' her out?
You should call mon, tue, wed between 7 and 10pm to make plans with your harem for the week. If she's busy, tell her to cancel and you're a lot more fun. If not, then say maybe another time. Keep convo to less than four minutes. Less is more, and absence makes the heart grow fonder, and things in short supply are much desired.

Thanks man. Really cracked me up.

Is it possible that I'm rushing too much into meeting her and that put her off? Should I try to build more comfort through chat (or call)?

My assessment is that you're projecting a non-sexual vibe or you have a very weak sexual vibe. Girls chase guys with sex appeal either on FB or face-to-face.

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Hmm, noted. Should I keep engaging?

My advice on taking that new sexy picture and embedding the video was not intended to crack YOU up.

It's designed to make your target girl horny and make you more attractive to her so she'll say 'yes' when you ask her out again for a date.

Again, take a new sexy picture of you as per advice and then post it in your FB. Embed that video too on your FB. When the girl starts hitting you up, go for the date.

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It is well received dude. So I just quit chatting with this girl I barely know and hope she chances upon my updates and takes notice?

Not trying to imply anything, serious question.

For context, she already noticed my profile a long time ago, she took notice of my work and she USED TO like my updates.

Ask yourself when it started going wrong...

It went wrong after the first week you froze her out for "being too busy." You said it yourself, the chick is hot, has plenty of admirers and she was interested in you. Why freeze her out needlessly for a week? During that time she probably had about twenty other guys hitting on her. Why wait around for some dude she only talked to on FB and met once at a function? The only way a woman will do that is if you have created very high social value, showed her you were different to every other Joe out there that hits on her and were someone she could really enjoy herself with and others admired.

A lot of people will basically tell you to freeze a chick out but that's stupid. That's stupid if you haven't built a connection and have her hooked in some shape or form. One or two IOIs isn't hooking a chick, you want them drawn in.

From this I don't get the impression you hooked her. You were on the way but then you cut it off completely before reaching a solid hook where she craved your company. That's where you went wrong. Her interest was only so~so and instead of ramping it up you cut it off by freezing her out. Because you froze her out too soon you had the opposite effect on her: You turned her away.

Anyway, at this point I would just ask her for a coffee and hang out. Keep it simple, no pressure environment and ramp up attraction there. Also, as ChimeraPanda said, I would do as he said. It comes across as confident, fun, a man who can take control, someone she could enjoy herself with. If she still doesn't just next her and ping her in a couple of weeks.

Totally agree with you. Not sure I would have done any different though, it was really a busy time for me. So here I am trying to recover.

Appreciate the input man.

It's like fishing. Bait her. When she or other girls take the bait, go for the date.

I repeat. Ignore her. Post your new picture. Embed the video and sarge 100 other girls.

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Alright I'll do it man. No more contact from me then.