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Being a virgin is not a DLV. It actually doesn't have any effect whatsoever on your game, unless you use it to your advantage, which is possible. The ONLY possible thing which could be negative about being a virgin is that it CAN (but doesn't have to, it depends on how you carry it) give signals of scarcity, the opposite to abundance and preselection.
It's all about setting the frame. Let your virginity be something that you are proud of, and that you are not one of those promiscuous PUA:s who sticks their dick in anything that moves. Actually, this promiscuity is what makes pickup even harder than it needs to be, since it contradicts many of the "rules" of pickup (as in don't be a try-hard, don't be needy etc). If you know what kind of girl you are looking for, and you are willing to say no to those who don't match your standards, you will immediately turn into a high value man that earns people's respect.
Yeah, i like this advice. Hugge puts it right. In pickup, a 'handicap' is only a handicap if you see it that way. If you believe that being a virgin is a handicap, then it will be a handicap. If you look at it creatively, you can turn it into an asset. It can go the other way as well, with looks. I have seen good looking chaps approach effortless and then fail miserably. But on the other hand, there are 'ugly' dudes, who just rock at picking up. Its not always this easy like i would make it like right now, but in any case, be creative but dont go to far. The best ways to put it into an asset is to keep it simple.
cheers and good luck
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