This is for a girl I've had sex with before. Let's say typically I do a massage with oil before sex. I need a monologue I can familiarize myself with so I can smoothly deliver, in my own words, a thought sequence during the massage that will make her deeply relax and anchor the good feelings with me.

What do you recommend? I searched forums but couldn't find something like this. Point me in the right direction.

Hi Chimeran,

You don't need to look for elsewhere to find the relaxing narration thing while massaging her because you should just be natural relaxed during the massage thing and say whatever first comes to your mind and feels natural to you at those moments. Simple.

Why am I telling you this stuff that seems pretty self explanatory?

Because every time you say or do something to a woman and she feels that what you're saying or doing to her deosn't feel totally natural and fun to you, she'll be able to subconsciously tell that you don't really believe that what you're saying or doing to her is real or right to you. In other words, she'll be able to pick up on your negative emotions and your negative beliefs about what you're saying or doing to her just by looking at your body language. How is this possible?

It's possible because your beliefs control your emotions, and your emotions control your body language.

Once you get this, you'll understand why so many top players say over and over again that all guys who are naturally good with women are congruent by having what they do match how they feel about it. Put simply, being congruent is all about being true to yourself.

If you want to draw some inspiration on what kind of things you could tell her during a massage, watch out for the chapter on the 2 most powerful sexual body language techniques to sexually escalate that's on my blog's page about overcoming LMR -last minute resistance at: http://www.pickupflow.com/lmr.html

Hope this helps.

Bruno

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Thanks, Bruno; I read your page and I live it. Let me be more clear and maybe even start off a sequence. This is just off the top of my head. Maybe we, as a community, can suggest better visualizations, better ideas. This is all in my words.
This starts off when she's topless in bed face down with me on her ass. I'm laughing as i write this on a public forum, but here it goes:
"I want you to take a deep breath, hold it, exhale. As you do so, you feel all your worries leave your body. Imagine them leaving your body and going away into space, getting smaller, until you can't see them anymore...only darkness. There's nothing. Now, I want you to imagine yourself on a tropical beach, turquoise water, the sun... I'm walking up shirtless with two mojitos. You take one from my hand... and staring into my eyes... you put your hand on my body... I pick you up and carry you into bed. I straddle you. You are under my control. I put your hand in my pants, and you take it out...you put it in your mouth. It feels good. Your soft lips. It's getting bigger in your hand. Throbbing. It feels so natural. Your lips just moving...up..and down..."

Anyways, anybody can do something that's alright. I think with our collective experience we can come up with something really, really good. So let's discuss, or share links.

Chimeran, you're welcome. Thanks for letting me know that you read my page.

By the way, I like your narration sequence because it's very creative and most importantly, it's original, it's YOU.

I hope that you sharing this sequence inspires all of us in here to always be the REAL US. In other words, the point I want to make is that we should always keep it natural without feeling any pressure of having to memorize or recite anything that's NOT THE REAL US.

Bruno

P.S. Your sequence has reminded me of my creative and original texts when creating flirty text messages that contain the stuff like 'cocktails' and her sitting astride on my bum and massaging my back on the beach . You can check it out at: http://www.pickupflow.com/text-game.html

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