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How many girls can you approach in one club before it's time to move on to another one in the same night? i.e. too many girls have 'caught on' that you're trying to pick up girls- but you're just practising game and improving. What's the balance here? How do you avoid coming across as AFC when you're trying to improve your game in one club? Won't too many girls see you approaching randoms and then avoid?
No. Honestly, I'll bounce around from venue to venue alot until I find a place that I like the layout and the crowd and plant myself there for the night.
Here's a couple of things to realize...
1. People don't stay in the same place all night. New people are constantly coming in and out of the bar/club all the time. If anything, step outside for a few minutes, and go back in... you'll have a fresh group of people after you've burnt the place down.
2. Most people aren't paying attention to whats going around them. While you think you might be destroying yourself and your social proof, you're actually building it. People don't realize that you are getting blow out after blow out... They just see you as a social guy if anything. Don't worry about girls thinking your some chode. They might think your a chode when you first approach them... but you can always change that perception.