Met her on a dating app (Tinder), got gropey on the first date, 2nd date I went to hers and had sex but I didn't come! I didn't know what I was doing (probably because its my 2nd time and the first was worse lol) and we didn't really have sex (Was inside her for a minute or so and erection started to fade), I fingered her a lot to make up for it, from which she came each time. She gave me a BJ but I didn't get pleasure from it and the 2nd time I had to ask her to stop because it hurt for some reason lol

She wants to meet again on Saturday to do it again & I've said I'll come down but it's 2.5 hours to get there & I didn't enjoy the sex the first time... probably due to inexperience, so don't really want to. But then should I go just to get better at it?I'd hate to not get this shit sorted

The only reason why you hesitate to have sex with her, is that you fear that your sex performance might not be as good as you wish. So the 'problem' is not her, but you.

Would you try again or, give up in advance ?

If I was in your shoes before I went I would watch porn so you can gain knowledge on some of the positions and on what to do it will give you more confidence...Don't think about it man just fuck her and you take the lead..I wouldn't let her blow you tho if that shit hurt lol You got nothing to lose while gaining experience if this girl is just a fuck buddy then who care's what she thinks . Go get that shit!

Thanks for the advice bros

You need to not worry. Have some awesome sex with her and don't worry about anything. As for blow jobs, I can see why you wouldn't want them. Maybe she's not that good at them.

Also, try roleplaying if you can't get anything going.

Again only read the title and the answer is yes, when in doubt the answer is always yes.