so i met this chick a couple weeks ago and hung out with her a couple times. we met through a friend. well i wined and dined her one night, and i found out that i actually lie this chick. this past saturday, she had a party and invited me. i show and appearantly she told everyone i was coming because everyone knew me and i had no idea who they were. anyways we had a nice little make out session right off the bat, then went back to the party. at the end of the night we were deciding where to pass out at and naturally i assumed id be in her room. well before this happens, she takes her small dog out before bed, so naturally i followed to seal the deal. we go at it again outside and lose track of time.....and the dog. she was obsessed with this it. we searched and finally found out that it got hit by a car up the road. she was out of her mind upset, it was like her kid. we all stuck around trying to help her and getting a hold of everyone she needed to talk to. everything was taken care of and she was about to leave to go bury the dog and was saying by to everyone. i had my head down just waiting to see if she was even gonna talk to me anymore. she came up and hugged me and i told her i was so sorry and she said she was sorrying she was blaming me for it, so i felt like shit. our mutual friend was still there and she said she hopes it doesnt come between us becuase she would talk about me everyday and liked me a lot. i was hoping it wouldnt either. the next day i didnt know what to do if i should talk to her or not. she texted me first later that day saying she was sorry again for blaming me. i told her i was sorry and i shouldnt have been out there with her and she said it wasnt my fault and not to feel bad. we texted for a little bit with me throwing inside jokes trying to cheer her up but the convo always went back to the dog. i tried consoling her til i went to bed. i havent talked to her today which we usually talk everyday. so i need advice on what to do. do i wait for her to text me so i know things have blown over or do i make the first move after a couple of days to let her deal with everything? it wouldnt have been a big deal except i genuinely like this girl. any advice?

Don't pull the disappearing act... OK, the situation is a bit tough, but by staying close you prove your character... average guys would just bail out and never call/text again... but you will stand out by holding your position... I wouldn't push for escalation within the next days, though...

thats what i was thinking that i would give her a couple days to get shit straight especially with it being christmas. i didnt really plan on bailing i just figured the ball is her court with me kind of being the asshole she was blaming for getting the dog killed. i was thinking it would be nothing but negative thoughts if i tried talking her through it and im pretty sure no one wants to be thought of negative as it probably doesnt work out best for anyone. just need to make sure im on the right track

man, you are not being the asshole... it was HER responsibility to look out for the dog, not yours... don't feel guilty about what happened, you should feel compassion for her... and be there, by her side, if and when she needs you...