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PostPosted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 5:55 pm 
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So I met a girl a few weeks back, beautiful with a great personality, really into this one. I actually met her through a dude she was having a little fling with, but he left the country. Me and her have been hanging out a lot recently, we flirt and are all over each other constantly. I crashed at her house last night and she even asked me to sleep in her bed with her. She cooks for me, buys me drinks all the time, I really get the feeling that she's into me. I really like this girl and I honestly think that's my biggest problem. I haven't even worked up the balls to kiss her yet. I usually have no problems getting physical with girls but with her I'm absolutely terrified. Am I officially friend zoned? Is there any way to save this? Please if anyone can give me some insight it'd help so much. Really don't want to screw this one up.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 6:03 pm 
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Far as i can see there is no problem at all. You just need to man the fuck up and make a move. If its not kissing at least perform some proper kino and eventually she makes a move. But i guess there is no way around making some sort of move. If you dont do anything she will probably assume you´re gay and friendzone you. But from what i understand your still good AT THE MOMENT.


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PostPosted: Mon Dec 23, 2013 9:32 pm 
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She probably posting the question....

"Why hasn't this guy made a move on me yet?" On some girly dating website.

The best time to escalate on a girl is the day you met her...the second best time is now.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 1:16 am 
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so how exactly are you all over each other yet NOT kissing?

How did you manage to be INVITED into her bed and you're not kissing this broad?

What does she have to do for you bro? Hold a sign saying " PLEASE FUCK ME NOW!!!"

I'm not trying to be a dick lol... but she's doing everything she can to get you to fuck her and you're too busy in your own head second guessing yourself. You better fuck her next time you see her... or your dick is gonna get fed up with your BS and walk away in the middle of the night.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 2:17 am 
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so how exactly are you all over each other yet NOT kissing?

How did you manage to be INVITED into her bed and you're not kissing this broad?

What does she have to do for you bro? Hold a sign saying " PLEASE FUCK ME NOW!!!"

I'm not trying to be a dick lol... but she's doing everything she can to get you to fuck her and you're too busy in your own head second guessing yourself. You better fuck her next time you see her... or your dick is gonna get fed up with your BS and walk away in the middle of the night.
I completely deserve to be bashed on dude, I'm absolutely ashamed with myself for how much of a pussy I am being with her. I generally go for girls that I can't stand so I never really give a shit if I mess anything up with them. But for whatever reason I just can't man up and start getting physical with her, any tips on how to just the bite the bullet and go for it? And as for the "all over each other" thing she constantly holds my hand, sits on my lap,and tries to cuddle with me. It's clear she's into me i'm just so caught up in the "what if's" of the situation that I'm terrified to do anything. I guess my biggest fear is getting rejected and it being too awkward to continue our relationship. If I can't bang her i at least want her as a friend. And yes, I am aware of how much of a pussy I am sounding like. Thanks for the support everyone.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 2:29 am 
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Fuuuuck her friendship. She rejects you? Fuuuck her whole existence then. Don't care about it, you want her and to have sex with her? Go do it, it should be natural. She won't let you? Retreat, be cool. Try once more, no again? Dissapear. "Im feeling tired, gotta go". Bye. No text. Until she begssss you to come back and then you fuck her brains out and she will be yours. Easy man.. Dont be afraid, dont settle for anything less then what you want.. dont be naieve and lie to yourself, your not content with friendship, otherwise you wouldnt be here..


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stop thinking about it and go in for the kiss. That's the only answer. The pain you're going through now is A LOT worse than trying to kiss and being rejected....

but the thing is this looks like a 99.9% success rate. I don't see how she'll reject you..

you just gotta do it.

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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 3:08 am 
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Fuuuuck her friendship. She rejects you? Fuuuck her whole existence then. Don't care about it, you want her and to have sex with her? Go do it, it should be natural. She won't let you? Retreat, be cool. Try once more, no again? Dissapear. "Im feeling tired, gotta go". Bye. No text. Until she begssss you to come back and then you fuck her brains out and she will be yours. Easy man.. Dont be afraid, dont settle for anything less then what you want.. dont be naieve and lie to yourself, your not content with friendship, otherwise you wouldnt be here..
That's a great way to see it man, I actually couldn't agree more. Any tips though on how to actually get physical with her? I've never gotten this comfortable with a girl and not been physical, so I feel as if I'd have to go about it differently. Thanks bros.


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 24, 2013 2:54 pm 
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The moment you think a girl is different, or think you have to approach her differently then the rest, is when you lose. Don't do that. How would you get physical with another girl? Do the same with her. Natural, dont think to much about it. Just do it, like riding a bike. Get rid of your fear, read my post again and implement my mentality.


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