This is my first time posting about this subject and its kinda all fucked up. I started sleeping with a co worker that I had been good friends with earlier this year. I am married but not in a good one and although I know ive cheated on my wife with this woman I just cant stop wanting her. our affair carried on for about 7 months and ended abruptly when my wife found out. we stopped seeing each other all together for about a month and this devastated my mistress as she texted and called all the time. we eventually stated hanging out again and did sleep together a few times but when she realized that I wasn't leaving my wife for her she decided that the sex had to stop. we stayed friends, working out together and hanging out but this is where shit gets real confusing for me. She calls me her best friend...but has made it a point to tell me that there is no such thing as the friend zone with her and I and she will always find me sexy as hell and shit...after we stopped sleeping together she eventually met another guy. shes in her mid 20s and he is 46...huge age difference and I know hes not up to snuff in the sex department since ive heard that through mutual friends. Now she, eventhough is dating this other guy, loves to do things with me like cuddling and flirting and fooling around kinda. I would go over to her place early in the morning and hold her while she slept...almost naked but that didn't seem to matter...and she always lets me do things like grab her ass and kiss her on the neck and stuff of that nature. I at this point told her that I wanted to leave my wife and be with her but she wasn't willing to do that because of this other old guy. things did get a little carried away with her and I during some of our little cuddle visits, mainly because I was doing everything I could to seduce her, and she almost ended up fucking me because of it but then would always feel guilty, I know I coulda sealed the deal but didn't want to take advantage of her because I actually do love her. but alas I did end up spending one night with her and she ended up cheating on her boyfriend with me. she felt so bad about it the next day that she didn't talk to me for 3 weeks. we are now talking again and hanging out but its like shit is right back to the way it was, cuddle time and flirting and shit. she is still with this old guy but has told me there is no future there since she wants to move away from this city eventually and he wont leave plus she wants marriage and kids and she knows she cant have that with him. I should mention that I am also leaving my current city and this girl has told me that she wants to come with me, but hasn't said anything about weather it would be as friends or a cupple, but its a big topic of discussion with her at this point. I don't know whats going on in this chicks head and I have way to many questions to concider taking her with me, oh and I know people will say why don't you just ask her...that doesn't work with her if you want the truth, she is way to guarded of her true feelings that I wouldn't get a straight answer if I got one at all...what I don't get is why is she still with this old guy when she knows she has no future with him and the guy that can fufill all her needs and desires is right in front of her fucking face...and this old guy is not rich, he doesn't have a real job, not much money and isn't nearly as good looking as I am, and he stresses her out with a lot of baggage cause he was splitting with his wife when he met her and has kids and all that shit. not a good fit for her but for some reason she is still with him and is content to flirt with me and act inappropriate with the cuddling and that napping together and ass grabbing and always telling me how fucking hot I am and shit. I really don't know what to think with this chick cause she is so flip flopping around I cant read her worth shit

Alright so she said that there is no such thing as being friendzoned with her because of this reason.
You are her booty call

I think if you're unhappy with your marriage and don't want to try or havent been able to fix it you should be respectful of your wife and end it and begin picking up 2 and 3 chicks a night, get your fill and be happy. When the other chick sees you being single and active again she will stop being confusing and fall into a place of her being YOUR booty call. But as you get more and more unhappy you will be in less of a position to make ANYONE happy.

Hope this helps, i understood your post as well as i could and saw that no one else has offered advice.

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