Hey ive been trying to get a better game this semester and its been going well, but i feel like i need some solid begginer goals. Not like approach x girls or try canned stuff y times, im talking like eye contact body language. Ive seen a bunch of stuff on setting weekly goals but havent found a good list of goals to set. Finally for some context i go to a pretty smart school with tight knit groups so again no canned stuff/negs more natural game kind of goals.

Thanks in advance

Goals should be specific in nature, that way you will know whether you achieved your goals, and what is the best way to get there.

To find good short term goals, you need to know what your long term goals are.

Are you trying for a girlfriend? Are you looking for multiple relationships? Etc.

Since you are trying to develop natural game, it is very difficult to make objective, quantifiable goals, other than counting your numbers, makeouts, and lays.

Work on various skills, such as conversation, kino escalation, body language, etc. Focus on each skill one at a time and build on them. A website I like for natural game is girlschase.com

Ok goalsetter,

Let me give you some homework:

- Watch all the James Bond movies and learn about body language.
- Read Influence by Robert Gialdini
- Read The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino

Then define who you. When you approach a woman you are basically selling a product you want her to think is of the highest value she could ever get. You should be here Jimmy Choo, her Christian Louboutin, you are the Rolls-Royce and the Bentley.

If you want a real goal I give you one:

Get ten girls to have an honest interesting conversation with you before the end of the month and have them offer you the number or other contact details because they are afraid of losing touch. If you redefine yourself to where you are the cool, smooth, fun guy that they can't get enough, you don't need to "sarge" as such. Go watch some of Gambler's videos on YouTube. Natural game is what you want.

Sarge On,

Invictus85

Hey Goalsetter,

This is an Awesome question. The best goals are the ones that are actually quantifiable. Therefore you will need to try something a lot of times until you have successfully completed your goals.

Even though approaching girls is "beginner stuff", every master should have no problem completing a number of approaches. We can add some twists to each goal to make them slightly more difficult so that real progress can be tracked. These numbers are only for showing an example. Tweak them to make goals that you think that you can achieve.

1. Approach 25 girls
2. Approach 25 girls and get their name
3. Approach 25 girls, get their name and talk to them for at least 10 minutes
4. Approach 15 girls and get their name and phone number
5. Get 10 kiss closes from new girls
6. Bounce 5 girls from the club
7. Have 5 Day Two's with new girls you've met
8. Get 5 girls back to either your place or her place
9. Have sex with 5 new girls

Thanks guys! really clarified alot of stuff. Time to get at it!