So for once i found a girl that i actually seem to like. Turns out shes more fucked up than any other. But i think i have myself to blame. Ive been dating a girl HB8 for about a month now (5 meetings/dates if you will). Only on weekends we make contact and we have no contact at all during the week. She is fine with that and i think she likes it. Usually I don't really invest in a girl emotionally and that leads to sex almost instantly. I do what i want, when i want. I go out make sure i enjoy myself first and don't hold back. If the girl decides to stay awesome if not 'get lost'. Since i started dated this new girl for some reason i actually skipped my usual not caring and living the moment stage. We met through a social group as well as new each other prior like an acquaintance. She actually asked me out the first time and once on the phone she told me lets do something next weekend for date two. Im starting to feel like now im into her more than shes into me. The first two dates went well kissing and flirting! Problem is she sparks nothing romantically at all, never calls or texts, doesn't do nothing lately that i could say yeah, she likes me. Shell be up to meet up once i call i reckon! I really shouldn't care but i think i have invested my emotions a little in this one. I think i should lay off and not be so emotionally intact and start being me. Theres been a few occasions shes done something i disagreed with or didn't like and for some fucked up reason i let it slide. Usually i would make it aware that i dont roll that way or i dont agree! I realise that Because i like her a little i let it go. I shouldn't! Now its weekend Friday night. I would call and see if when can tee up a date or whatever for the weekend. We haven't slept with each other! Never been in the right moment plus she is a shocking romantic!
Firstly i never text so tonight i will text! What is a good push pull type text message i can send to spark interest and get her thinking. From now i will be me! i just want the tables to turn like normal! If you guys have any other suggestions or ideas post it up! thanks peace!

You should control yourself. After you have done that, control her.

Girls don't usually text first and tell you to hang out much often unless they consider you as a friend. Come on, even guy friends "don't feel" like doing that most of the time. People are lazy, you have to get used to that idea. Looking at what you went through, it's pretty normal. Set up a date on a weekend. Preferably mid-day and go to a bar at night (the same day).

You said she's romantically dead, but it's your job to spark up the mood for a romantic scenario. Escalate further when you kiss her, slowly though. Don't rush things.

PS: Try finding a private place to crash in after the bar.