Success in cold approach pickup has some prime philosophies that are the determinants of peoples success in this field. Now in this field, your going to hear allot of ‘fundamentals’ which are going to be touted from every corner of the Internet.
“cocky and funny”, “direct openers”, and the “10 funky tips to seduce women”.

All of them have their place in this field but one thing to mention however is that certain ‘tricks’ or ‘techniques’ employed to pickup women suggest the idea that learning pickup is a few little gimmicks that sky rocket your results with women.
Welcome to the world of the magic pill.



What am I talking about?

Websites/companies who say ‘do this ONE thing’ to pickup chicks are after your cash and hide the truth about success with women.



Whats the truth?

The truth is pickup is a skillset.

I want you to imagine this. Your about to participate in a body building contest and the goal is to lift more weight than everyone else to win first prize. Its a day before the competition and you decide to look up some tips to help you out.

You read: consume complex carbohydrates, drink lots of water and take a creatine suppliment. You take the advice and on the day of the competion, you look at everyone – completely jacked monsters. You on the other hand are dweeby and despite taking the advice of what you researched on the internet you, lose – then ultimatley angrily flame the body building forum for giving you bad advice.



What is this parable trying to tell you?



How does someone REALLY get jacked and strong? How can I guy lift 50kg above his head?

He trains; allot. He doesn’t just take creatine on the day of the competion, he trains because he knows success in the competion is based on how hard and long he trains prior. The guy who comes to the competion who never lifted weights in his life but ate his complex carbs, drank lots of water and creatine NEGLECTED the fact that body building is a cumulative skill-set!

Now back to pickup, a guy who decides he wants to ‘pick up’ little Amanda who sits next to him in biology, asks the pua community; “any advice to help me score”. After some research, he puts on some deodorant, brushes his teeth and practices his nice line “you look nice”.

It doesn’t go well.

The guy is then on the forums, flaming; PUA is BULLSHIT!

Because he NEGLECTED the fact that PICKUP is a cumulative skill-set! Not some cheap trick.

In order to get good with pickup, you need to accumulate a base of reference experiences. ALLOT of reference experiences. You need experience approaching, leading, doing day 2s, pulling, handling mixed sets and building your state. In order to get this experience, you need to approach. ALLOT.



So heres what I’m going to do. I’ll tell you the REAL fundamentals. They are mindset fundamentals that will guide your success in the SKILL-SET of success with women – not results with success with women. If you noticed, I haven’t even mentioned any advice about picking up chicks so far because this is the MOST important thing and any other advice about chicks is moot compared to this. This is the first post a newbie should read and I don’t want him to find any advice about picking up chicks until he’s decided weather he wants to be on a journey to skill-set mastery. – There are no 10 funky tips here.

Here are the REAL fundamentals



1. Take massive action – This means do whatever it takes to become good at this. Use the forum here to find a wingman in your area and start taking action, go out as much as you can to hit up the street or club and approach constantly.
When I was ‘coming up in the game’, I became obsessed. Obsessed to the point it was completely unsustainable and unhealthy but it was a necessary period for growth. People who accomplished allot in their lives owe it to a period of obsessivity. Look at Bill Gates; people who saw him sitting in his garage 16 hours a day probably thought he should get a girlfriend or play football and “have a balanced life”.

Why is Bill Gates one of the richest men in the world? – he was at one stage obsessed and spent 16 hours a day in a garage, programming computers. Why am I good at pickup? – I went out atleast 5-7 days a week for a year, approaching constantly. All my friends were wingmen, all I thought about was pickup and all I read was pickup.

Is this lifestyle healthy or sustainable? No, going out that much is retarded BUT would I be in the position I am in if I didn’t do that – HELL NO. Now I am good and I, like Bill Gates, can enjoy the benefits of what I created. I still go out and sarge but now things are allot more relaxed, fun and most importantly, I have lots of girls I am seeing and the ability to get more with ease.



2. Modify your approach – Allot of guys go out and take massive action. But it brings a tear to my eye when I see them remain in ‘intermediate purgatory’. My definition of intermediate purgatory is that they reached the intermediate stage (which is basically they developed enough to occasionally get laid but inconsitantly – usually getting laid due to playing the numbers game) but can’t push through and get to the higher level paradigm.

Intermediate purgatory is basically failure because all they do is approach over and over again without any compunction about modifying their strategic process. The same thing can happen at the newbie level to but to a lesser degree.

It is imperative that when something doesn’t work, CHANGE IT.

When 100 girls flake you, find out why and change your approach. When your having trouble hooking moving sets, find out why and change your approach. If you don’t know why, then guess why, change your approach and test it.

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