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PostPosted: Mon Nov 18, 2013 7:13 pm 
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So last March I turned 21, which really jump started me going out to bars and clubs. Although I am finding it hard to stray away from a push/pull routine. I had no problem completing the newby test, or straight up talking to girls. The problem I have is not many people at the bars I go to use push/pull so it works in a sense that the girl dose not automatically shield up. It seems to me most guys open and stick around to long and end up either boring the girl or immediately get shot down.

An example:
Me: playing some bar game ( shuffle board, darts, pool, etc)
HB: sitting at bar
Me: make eye contact and smile
HB: smiles back, and keeps looking my way
Me: No more eye contact till I finish my drink, and then go towards her end of the bar and order another
Me: Chat her up ask her name, and or questions till my drink arrives.
HB: Continues on with small talk etc.
ME: Get my drink it was nice meeting you, but I have a game to play.
HB: 80% of the time will say something like " Can I play next" or "Will you teach me how to play"
Me: I always say "sure", feel free to come over and sit by me while I finish this current game.

Then as we are playing I asses her. I start introducing more body language (guiding her hand in shuffle board etc). Also make sure and give her compliments and or neg her when appropriate.

So in essence I am asking how do you transition from a push/pull tactic, to a more direct approach in a setting where every other male in there is doing the same?

( sorry for the horrible grammer on my phone)


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:36 pm 
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Just stop using Push/Pull. It's that easy. At some point you have to confirm your intentions. She has to know you want to bend her over and give her your long shlong ova and ova(!!). Push/Pull is designed to keep her guessing which peaks her interest. Once you have the interest you focus on seduction which is flirting and using heavy kino.


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PostPosted: Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:42 pm 
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Oh sack that push pull crap off mental masturbation.

Find the girls that like you and then don't fuck it up.

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:42 pm 
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So last March I turned 21, which really jump started me going out to bars and clubs. Although I am finding it hard to stray away from a push/pull routine. I had no problem completing the newby test, or straight up talking to girls. The problem I have is not many people at the bars I go to use push/pull so it works in a sense that the girl dose not automatically shield up. It seems to me most guys open and stick around to long and end up either boring the girl or immediately get shot down.

An example:
Me: playing some bar game ( shuffle board, darts, pool, etc)
HB: sitting at bar
Me: make eye contact and smile
HB: smiles back, and keeps looking my way
Me: No more eye contact till I finish my drink, and then go towards her end of the bar and order another
Me: Chat her up ask her name, and or questions till my drink arrives.
HB: Continues on with small talk etc.
ME: Get my drink it was nice meeting you, but I have a game to play.
HB: 80% of the time will say something like " Can I play next" or "Will you teach me how to play"
Me: I always say "sure", feel free to come over and sit by me while I finish this current game.

Then as we are playing I asses her. I start introducing more body language (guiding her hand in shuffle board etc). Also make sure and give her compliments and or neg her when appropriate.

So in essence I am asking how do you transition from a push/pull tactic, to a more direct approach in a setting where every other male in there is doing the same?

( sorry for the horrible grammer on my phone)

^ good! you pretty much reach the hook point, then from there you have to move things forward which is to close her, you need to escalate the vibe and lead her towards your final goal which is to get physical or to isolate to a closing location. You need to show your intentions and to come across as a lover. You are focusing to mush on pull push, which is fancy way for flirting.

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