For some reason, usually at my weekend job at a fast food restaurant, whenever I'm just being myself at some point a girl will randomly say something like "thanks, you're so nice" or "you're such a nice guy". I know it's technically a complement, but I don't like getting it because it's a beta and weak thing to be.

What kinds of things can I do or say to seem like less of a nice guy and more of a strong person?

Stop being nice , simple.

Bust their balls/take the piss...Otherwise known as 'cocky and funny'

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"Nice guy" is thw biggest insult you can get, "nice guy" = unattractive and boring.

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Of course you generally WANT to be a "nice guy" when you're on the job or hanging with your family or friends. But around women, approaching, etc. as you have already stated "too nice" is beta. You don't need to be an asshole - just a confident dude with a sexy vibe who knows how to lead interactions. Go out and meet some women and your confidence will go up, causing you to not give a shit what any random person thinks of you or says to you.

There's a difference between being a "good person" and being a complete push over (nice guy). Being a good person with morals is a good thing.... being a push over, well, that won't get you anywhere in life.

what are some of the things that you are doing that are causing people to say "thank you, you're so nice."?

Lol..

I don't know about you guys but girls tell me I'm such a nice guy all the time.. That doesn't affect their attraction for me or my ability to fuck them because I know how to use my sexuality. Attracting women is about sexual tension; and if you genuinely love women and just aren't in this because your ego needs to be validated by getting laid you'll be nice to the like me. I love em too much to be mean honestly..


I'd stay, take less focus on trying not to be nice and put more focus on your sexuality.

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One thing at work is that since the fast food place was the job I held through high school and college, a lot of times if I'm on one position I'll do things that support the other positions since I've done it all and know how everything works inside and out. Like If I'm making sandwiches, and the coordinator is behind, I'll prepare an order or two for them, or walk the sandwiches to someones tray up front instead of waiting for the person up front to bring them to the customer. I do it to expedite business, but a few times I get the "thanks, you're so nice" from girls like I was doing it to please them or something.

Also, another instance I can think of was when me and two of my guy friends were hanging out, they started joking around about how funny it would be to see me get mad because I'm a muscular guy but as one of them put it am a "teddy bear".

Those are all I can think of right now, finals are killing my brain!

nothing beta about that.

Don't identify with typical notions of what 'strong' and 'weak' is. The only thing that matters here is your game and your ability to get laid.

Girls call me nice all the time - that would definitely signify a greater contextual problem if I wasn't getting laid, but seeing as I am it is a moot point with no value.

-goiundy

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