i've been surfing this site for a few weeks,
and finally want to put myself up here and seek for some experts' assurance in games! (if my words are hard to understand, please bear with me)

this is my story:
I've only had 2 gf's so far, and the 1st ex was far better than the terrible 2nd one. (ps. i've gone all the way n had great the u-know-wut time w/ both of them)

i've always talked about girls with my friends, asking for their opinions, and of course i have my own perspectives as well. I mean, i like girls, i LOVE girls, that's the nature of man. And some people'd say: "man you're too horny, always checking out girls." I know most of the pple check others out, they just don't say it that often (am i correct on this one?).

i'll just cut out all the crap n go straight to my point.

i've become fairly ok in flirting w/ girls, ONLY ONLINE... msn or whatever. but when i see them in person, my brain just shuts off itself, don even know how to keep the conversation running.

i've got my eyes set on a particular girl now.
she works in a convenient store in my university, she's an asian, probably a korean.

she doesn't smile much, and i've been going there quite often recently just to see her (ofcuz i buy stuff, so i make it like im just a harmless customer).

i asked my frd if he were in my shoes, what'd he do.
he said, he'd just go straight up to her n tell her she's beautiful and what not, n ask for number. i was like... u'd get rejected easily i guess...

the approach i have is, i'd go up to her next time, and like this:
"hey, are you korean?" if she says yes, then
"i thought so too. but i wasn't too sure cuz u've got this smile more beautiful than any other korean girls"
"is that a nose stud you have there? it looks stunning on you, because it's on you."
then if this goes on without awkwardness.. i'll close the conversation with an excuse of going to class... so can i get her number or whatnot.

how do you guys think?
i've always had plans but, executing them... MAN... how hard it is to do so....

i truly appreciate you reading all these.



edit:
i've done all the things(with my 2 ex's), but still not good w/ picking up female strangers~
i become like a shy kid who's never had any contacts w/ girls whenever i see a target i like = =lll donno why

Welcome to the community….

Unless you are really good looking and naturally appeal to her, you may not get anywhere with that approach.

SO here is the question. Assume you only have one shot with her. If you do not do it well, then she will be gone. Do you want to use that shot now, when you are at the stage you freeze up with girls, or do you want to practice a bit first and then approach her.

If it was me, I would wait.

So that means you need to practice. Read my signature below. Get Double your Dating from David D. It is $20. It will be the best 20 you have ever spent. After you have read it, work on learning M3 (Outer game below).

It is work, it is hard, it is extremely rewarding. Everything worthy in life is. After that, come back and join the PMZ so you can really amp your game.

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Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

can i get more input on this very question??