I've known this girl since I was about 5 years old and never got to know her before last night after exchanging a few messages over 3 hours, had her qualifying herself to me, but the way she was responding to me seemed as if she had abit of a bitch shield up and she wouldn't acknowledge the compliments I was giving her. She has a daughter who is nearly 3 years old and she broke up with the childs dad over a year ago I think.

The conversation has been flowing pretty well with us and I've had her laughing quite abit and earlier I was suprised when she re-opened me a few hours ago, instantly made me think she was interested in me.

I messaged her with "I've not seen you in forever, would you be interested in grabbing a coffee with me?" now I'm normally more dominant with the messages, but after she told me the childs dad was a manipulator I thought it would be best to keep away from giving off a controlling vibe.

I thought I would totally have this in the bag, this is what she sent in reply "i dnt get much time"

I honestly don't know where to take this now, need help guys.

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Peace,
Leo

Keeping signatures original since: Wed Oct 09, 2013

Build more comfort. She will make the time.

You just jumped the gun a little killer.

Start some flirty banter.

Start off with a short funny story about something you both saw recently, or a goofy person from you old days.

Make a clever observation. She will certainly respond to that. Flirting with your wit is a great tactic.
Just be original. Think of something that no one else would know but you. A little mole, or how she USED to do her hair.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

She re-opened me again few hours ago.

She wont budge, shes coming across as really independent.
I really don't think I have the experience to game her

Me: everyone needs to let their hair down from time to time
Her: its diff 4 me
Me: do you mind if i ask why?
Her: cos my daughter comes 1st, then work, then me taking care of my home

Constantly mentions her daughter. tried saying she was a yummy mummy and that got shot down with an attempt her looking for validation? "im jst a fatter me n happy and tbh i keep myself to myself"

Beginning to think i have no idea what am actually doing with Pick Up haha

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Peace,
Leo

Keeping signatures original since: Wed Oct 09, 2013

Oh for fuck sake! Looks like a next.

Had a conversation with her since yesterday and saying I have respect for her being a single mum... only now has she dropped into the conversation that she has a boyfriend, brilliant!

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Peace,
Leo

Keeping signatures original since: Wed Oct 09, 2013