Ok, we've broken up after a year and a half...She doesn't trust me and has good reason (cheated with the heart not the d!ck)...

Before we broke she didn't answer her phone all the time so I decided to not answer for her a whole night to the point she thought something bad happened to me, so when she found out I did it out of spite (which I did trying to teach her lesson) it was the straw that broke the camel's back...

So we had the whole argument, cursing each other out etc., now broken up...

We hadn't talked in a week and on Halloween she sends me text of her outfit, I'm like that's nice...

Don't talk again until that next Monday when she comes out the blue with a sexy pic and "I love you" text, so I waited a few hrs and text "love you too" we texted each other about a bill we had to help pay and that was last Thursday...

So no contact since, I'm feeling like this is that game where who calls first loses...I hate this $hit and i'm trying to hold out, I'm talking with other girls at work, keeping overly busy, but the dishes piling up in this house LOL, and I need some booty, so I'm almost about to crack...

Need strategy because I think my girl wants me back, but I just want us to be cool enough to still hang and have sex possibly, so................

WTF? advice...

do your damn dishes don't be a loser.

hold your line bro you can do this. if you made a line you won't cross don't cross it.
I know it shitty, I know it's hard to hold out. The fucked up thing is the one that cares the most loses.

if you have not heard from her in about 3 more days text Her...." you left some panties in my laundry"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

This whole thing confuses me. Is the point to get sex or to get her back?

I want us to still be able to do things together and have sex potentially with not being a couple (something we talked about if we ever broke up)...Look we went from dating to full on living together in a house and contemplating FOREVERNESS in about eight months...I don't think either of us wants to go that deep from the start if we reconcile...the thing that got us together was our interest is all these things, so honestly I want my friend back too but with benefits...But who knows if we get over this hump, I just don't want to get back into this thing with no power at all because I called and begged for her back or whatever...

So Heywood Jablowme if she calls me first then? and the panty text really works eh? what reaction should I expect from that if I get one...

Project sexual interest only, EXPECT the same in return.

Rekindling her sexual interest is the route.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

^I'm feeling ya on this and I held out again today despite the urge...

Curios if there are any other strategies or opinions out there to consider...Cuz I'm probably gonna go bar ass hunting this weekend because I KNOW ME, I been on low volume for over two weeks now...