Im gonna try to keep this as short and to the point as possible. Im recently single after 3.5 yrs in a relationship and im getting back into the game.

Im approaching girls, groups and not, focusing on the ones I want. Always seems good. They laugh, smile, seem interested. I get the number and then I either dont here from them or they flake out.

Now Im guessing its because i havnt been isolating the girls that I want away from their groups and actually making it more personal. Ive just been talking to them along with their group members. But sometimes I feel like its hard to isolate a girl in a bar environment (Im a college student in a college town). Maybe Ill just need to figure out how to go about doing this.

Also, Ive noticed that alot of girls act completely uninterested at first, until I break them down and cut through the shit tests. is this normal for any of yall, or is this just me?

But going back to the real issue, my question is does anyone have any idea as to why this number crap keeps happening to me? is it that im not isolating? and if it is an isolation issue, whats the best way of doing this in a bar/club environment?

I appreciate any and all help.

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If a girl asks for your help after she has fallen down the stairs...it's not a shit test

Sounds like you're really plowing! That's great! What is the context in which you are asking for their number?

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Hey mate you're right with the shit tests that happens to me almost everytime I open at a club. Nothing out of the ordinary there, but you're right in isolating. You have to isolate make it personal build up that tension you can't do that when she's with her group. Google Badboy lifestyle.com he has a good article on club game and isolating then moving to different locations in the club for proper escalation. Give that a read. Good luck!!

I appreciate the reply's fellas. Yeah the problem definitely has been that I havnt been really focusing on getting to know the girl on a more personal level before asking for her number. I realized this because the girls that I do see again, I did make a good personal connection with. Gunfighter28, thanks for the article its really got some good info in it!

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If a girl asks for your help after she has fallen down the stairs...it's not a shit test

You can't run from the numbers game... if you approach 100 women and get their number within 5 minutes you will have a ton of flakes percentage wise, but also a ton of numbers. If you focus on the 10 or so girls who are the most promising, spend a lot of time with them, isolate, etc. You will get less numbers but much less will flake. Just pick an approach.

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Could be an issue with your text game as well. Next time you get a stack of numbers, send out a bunch of different opening texts to test it out.