Hi all

Does anybody have a a long file of conversation points? I often run out of things to say.

Also if you are approaching after receiving an IOI, how much more direct can/ should you be?

I am a total novice at this.

Would this intro routine be ok or not?

IOI/smiles
Me stick tongue out. her does same and smiles (am finding this quite a good ice breaker)
Me walk over touch elbow, "hey there whats your name"
HB blah
me "Well blah, I can see your a little bit cheeky"
HB blah
me....its here I run into trouble, what would the natural progression be?

- ask her somewhere a bit quieter
- Would it be too early for gentle kino, was thinking about running the trust game here, sort of basic hand touching etc?

any ideas would be really good.

Hey man, I like the start. Sounds like you are focused on being playful. That's great! When you say midgame, what do you mean?

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Try to cut the mid-game.

Open --> Isolate --> F-Close

If you're focused on just 3 steps, topics will smoothly flow from out of nowhere. Just stay away from depressing topics and focus on playful and sexual topics.

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