I recently went on a date with a girl which I flopped by being too gentle and nice - got a usual "interested in being friends" kind of response next day. However, the same girl asked me very recently when I would like to grab a drink with her.

While I am still a noob in the PUA world, the "standard" first date game is something I have a frame of reference for and vaguely know what rules to follow. This time however I am completely lost. I guess my main objective would be to figure out/build up sexual attraction, this time for real. Considering this is the second attempt, after LJBF, what would you guys say the general strategy should be? Be playful, nag a bit, but keep the distance, or play more aggresively?

Any tips are greatly appreciated

She's most probably giving you a second chance.
Escalate this time, but don't make it obvious that you are escalating.
Play it cool, don't be affected, and escalate while you are talking.

Try to kiss close. There's nothing to lose, plenty of fish in the sea.

Yea second chance man, Xoved is pretty much right.

Only thing i disagree with is one word, "try". Try to k-close, don't try, just fucking do it.

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"Escalate while talking" - could you give me an example what you mean by that? Simply be playful and try to kino with her i.e. try to stroke/touch her?

One thing I like to do to amuse myself is escalate physically WHILE talking about some completely boring irrelavent subject. Like rapid kino escalation and sexual eye contact while talking about the different types of paint on the walls. You can k-close while talking about wallpaper not kidding.

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Sorry for another noob question - is that the same principles of regular kino just make everything a lot faster? Should that be the approach here?

The reason why I'm asking all this is because it naturally seems to me that the approach should be different this time - first date was not a kiss-close, then LJBF thing, so now I don't know what to expect and how to behave

make it really fucking obvious you are into her to date her/sleep with her but using our actions (kino/eye contact as was suggested) as opposed to your words. Your words are "cool", your kino/eye contact are "I'm going to fuck your brains out"

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