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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:44 am 
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If you ask a question and if the HB doesn't answer it, is it bad to come back and try to get her to answer that question?


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 7:53 am 
Totally depends on the question and the situation. Sometimes it's good to push, other times it's good to drop.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:13 pm 
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I would drop just out of principle. If you are alpha male, if you don't need validation, then her opinion is nice, but not necessary. You should try to demonstrate that to her.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 18, 2008 11:42 pm 
Eh, it's not quite as cut and dry as that. It's all to do with in field calibration.

You can say I'm not the alpha in this situation if you want, and that's fine. That's your opinion, but here's an example from my personal life.

I was with my ex-g/f in my club one night. She had her friend there with us. Another girl. A very annoying girl. Both my g/f and I were getting beyond annoyed by her, so I said, into my g/f's ear since I was dancing behind her, "are you gonna do something about her?"

Well, she blew the question off at first. I watched and could see just how annoyed my g/f was getting, just as I was, so I asked again, "are you gonna do something about her . . . or am I?" She KNEW I would if she didn't, so she told put her g/f in her place. Her g/f took off for a bit, leaving us alone, and we were able to enjoy some time w/o her. At that point, the night became pleasant.

So, again, it really does depend completely on the situation and the question. I was actually showing her respect at the point of me not saying anything to her g/f myself, but I would have, if I had to. She was glad once she finally put her foot down with her g/f.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 2:24 am 
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Concur with what LA said. It is also in the way it is done.
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If you ask a question and if the HB doesn't answer it, is it bad to come back and try to get her to answer that question?
What do you mean by 'try'?

Neg her?
Beg her?

Negging is appropriate in this situation with the limited information?

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