Ok, so theres this girl in my uni class who recently broke up with her boyfriend, apparently hes cheated on her a number of times and her whole family and friends hate him. Any way she told a few her friends a while back that she liked me. she started texting me in class and snapchatting me all the time and asking me when im next out and to go meet her, a few days later she asked me if I wanted to go out just me and her for a few drinks the following Wednesday to which I agreed to. Anyway the Monday before the Wednesday I saw her in town and we where both drunk and one of my friends told her that I liked her and she came over and we kissed a few times but nothing else, one of her friends told me she must of liked me because im the first guy in two years she seen her kiss. Anyway On the Wednesday afternoon I text her to make sure she was still good to go for this drink and to arrange a time, she told me she had a friends party to go to, I saw her in the library an hour or so later and she explained the situation which she did have a party to go to (but even so i knew this wasnt good), she was flirting with me and and stealing my stuff and just doing what girls do I guess, then she was saying you should of heard what your friend told me monday night, and when i asked what she wouldn't tell me to my face, i think she was a bit shy, anyway after she left the library she text me saying do you really want to know what he said, I obviously said yes, she said apparently you really like me is this true, I said I like you yes but I dont know you well enough to say I really like you why, and she said I was just wondering I like you to. so I said well we are gunna have to go for this drink next week arnt we to which she replied defiantly. any way we arranged to meet on Tuesday after she finishes gymnastics at 830. so over the course of the next few days I could almost sense that her interest levels where dropping, her texts where getting shorter and just a lack of communication. anyway on Sunday she broke her wrist, so on the Monday I text her asking how the wrist was and to make sure she was good for Tuesday. 5hours later she replied saying Hey:) wrist still hurts:p ...What time you thinking ish? ive still got to go gymnastics xxx. so I'm thinking gymnastics with a broken wrist wtf , I know she finishes at 830 so I said, I was thinking around 930ish maybe 10? that should give you enough time right? and she replied, I cant really do that late :/ xxx. Im so confused right now. she told me she likes me asks me out with her all her friends say she likes me is she just been playing me? so far ive not initiated any contact, shes snapchatted me which I ignored, I know the best thing to do is to forget this girl but shes in most of my classes and I like her. Any suggestions would be appreciated.

That is one large block of text, dude.

From what you've written I don't really get the impression she's playing you - but I do sorta get the feeling she's got some personal issues happening and you're secondary to them.

I'd give her some space.

The best way to handle something like this is to have other options. It keeps your mind off this flake and opens up other possibilities

I agree with CharlesFinley. She probably wants to meet you and all that, but you have already done your part. Stop chasing her trying to arrange that date. Give her the ball and tell her to suggest something instead (date, time and place). Until she does, leave her alone. (But don't ignore her or play any games).

Thanks for the advice I appreciate it. I just feel she may of lost a bit of interest and I cant see why after she told me she like me. Is there any way to get her interest levels up again or at least ask her what the deal is without sounding needy or clingy?