My gf of 1 year 2 months and I banged like rabbits up until maybe a month ago. She says I am the best she has ever had, and not just saying that to say it (I met her at 19 after a 3.5 yr relationship, so she is telling the truth). We are talking 3 times every time we saw each other. This is the girl who has never had an orgasm even by herself. We had a few amazing experiences for her recently with the vibrator, where she might have cum tho. I dominate the shit out of her and we try different positions. Lately though I am noticing stuff like this happening when we hang out though:

-I guerilla fuck her while her parents are in the other room before the club, and we stop halfway through due to her

-Last night we got back from the club at like 1 am, both tired. My idea, i tell her to grab the vibrator. She says "I am too tired for that" (odd since she has been having a GREAT time with it lately) and I said "I don't want to have sex." So she said "Fine we don't have to have sex, but I'm too tired for that." So I lay in the bed away from her freezing her out, she starts initiating and said "comon what are you an old man....have sex with me.... (horny)" We have intercourse for about 10 minutes after foreplay of kissing and other stuff and she is biting me and into it in missionary...but says "ok I am too tired lay next to me and cuddle." She says she doesn't have the stamina and if it was earlier.... We get to talking as I sit up and she is laying down. She says she feels like I nit pick her and she just wants me to be satisfied wholly when we have sex, "It makes me feel like I'm not good enough" and said "Am I wrong in thinking the sex we have is so good? (aka is it good for you)" The following morning she says "Wow we barely had sex yesterday, because we did what YOU want to do" kinda blaming me for not having sex....

Mind you she jumped me the other day when she came over and I didn't take her up on it and she said "you don't want to take advantage of our time alone?" Then later that night we had sex and she kept laughing and hugging me afterwards in disbelief because of amazing foreplay.

BUT another time, she stopped me from making her cum and said "whoaa baby steps" and was in joy/disbelief/shaking, we start having intercourse passionately and like 10 min in she said "OK this is not what I had in mind" and didn't finish me off. This made ZERO sense to me since she was responsive and passionate and had just had the closest experience to orgasm she has ever had seconds earlier and was laughing in joy. And trust me I was fucking her hard and fast, dirty talking, ect. I had pulled out for two seconds. (The previous day, for crying out loud, she cancelled plans just to have sex with me in her room!)

But here is the thing: SHE INITIATES MORE THAN I DO! "I was horny this morning" "I want you..." "Have sex with me"


I hope this isn't going to be one of those "more foreplay/spice it up" threads...lol I see her 2-3 times a week but usually like Thursday, Saturday Sunday, or Two weekend days in a row where I sleep over 1-2 times. She initiates contact, futures me, is close to my family, but is young and sexually inexperienced.

Don't listen to her...When she tells you that she's tired, do the work. YOU do the work, not her.
When she's energetic, let her take lead for a few minutes then take lead again by changing positions.

If you let her decide everything, she'll start losing interest.

i dont know bro. im kinda getting old here but if anyway i have a chance of having a girlfriend i would fuck her once every two weeks till i get passionate again. if i fuck regularly i really dont have any desire to fuck again so the foreplay sucks and i just wanna stick it in her and jack off with her butt. if you wanna make her feel some passion in every little thing that you do dont fuck her too regularly. i also think its the passion/lust is slowing down on me because im 31 already.

I don't get it man...why the hell would she stop me during intercourse if she is biting my arm (enough to leave a mark the next day)

Not to mention she is so concerned with what I THINK of the sex, and I think if she thought it was bad she wouldn't give a shit

Ever tried rough sex? Maybe she wants to give it a try and you are not getting the idea.
If she's biting, slap that thing and do the same.
You're probably having casual sex whereas she wants everything hard.

Yes I dominate the crap out of her and sometimes go easy other times hard. Sometimes she will say she got too wet and can't feel as much. We have talked about what each other and our wants in the bedroom and she has said "everything you do feels good, just different positions" and I agreed but I pretty much already fuck her in every way possible and she kindve said after that "yeah, we do do alot"

She has also said to me "In the past I've felt like I've been doing guys a favor having sex with them/a chore, I would hop off before they came, but with you sex isn't boring, I was worried since we have it so much it would get boring but that isnt the case"

She also sprinkles lines like "just you and me" and "we are perfect for each other" in during sex, "you are the only one who does it right" lol