TLDR: Current girlfriend interested in a threesome with another girl - who I was hooking up with before we were dating.

The Characters:
Myself - A 29 year old, ex military college student. I've been studying PUA for nearly two years, had great success with what I've learned. I've had a couple soft FFMs (my partner at the time was bad at them), and a real MMF (she was better at that, surprise).

D - A 30 year old old college friend of mine. Formerly my big one-itis, we reconnected and started having sex about three months ago. Some fantastic sex, I might add. She lives almost two hours away, and I quickly fell "out of love" with her as I realized she was not the type of woman I'd like to seriously date. Very sexually experienced, with both types of threesomes, good friend, great lover, bad girlfriend material.

S - A 19 year old college student, and my current girlfriend. Around the same time I was hooking up with D, I met her and we started fooling around. I eventually took her virginity (my first card btw) and made her my girlfriend. Easily the best quality woman I've ever dated, despite her age.

Both are HB9 in my book.

So at some point recently, S and I got to talking about threesomes. She's quite interested, in fact she's doing her own homework on them. From my homework, I know it's important in this situation to let your woman do the choosing of the third girl, and lo and behold - she tells me that D is the girl she had in mind. Why? "I'm not threatened by her". And with good reason, she honestly shouldn't be.

Sounds like a done deal, right? So why am I here?

I've also read that the "other girl" shouldn't be one of my past lovers. So is D a good candidate, or should I hold out for a different woman? D and S have met previously, and the sexual interest/attraction between them is mutual (but never acted upon). I'm aware of the basics (let my girlfriend set the rules, focus on her, etc), but I'd like to hear arguments for/against bringing an old lover of mine into the fray with my current girlfriend. I also know that my girlfriend is young, inexperienced, and that our relationship is just beginning - this threesome wouldn't likely happen for months yet. Judging her interest level, I doubt she is interested "just for me", although she also is more interested than FFM than MMF. Now that she's had sex with a man (me of course) she's now interested in trying women. Worth noting, she also has a (mutual) crush on her roommate (HB8), but that roommate also has a wimpy/unattractive boyfriend I don't want to bring into the bedroom.

Hey man,

you're not going to get much here because most of the guys on the " General Questions" side of these forums haven't came close to a 3 some.

I've had my share and I completely disagree with those " rules " that have been set up. So much for giving women all the say in a relationship. Do you run other areas of your relationship that way? Just this one? Why? Be consistent.

From my experience, women are usually far too indecisive to carry this out on their own. Once you're in the groove of doing 3 somes that different but the first one, you MUST lead it. The key to this is to just not give your woman a chance to think. Surprise her with another girl in the bedroom. Just make sure you're doing it for " her " and not yourself. She'll be able to feel the difference.

I had buddies who invited a girl over he knew his woman was interested it... He had the other girl hide in the closest.. Once he started getting intimate with his girl he signaled her to come out the closet. And at that point it was too late for his girl to think. It was just time for action.

You can have as many 3 somes as you want, when its framed in a way where this is something she wants, just a bit more than it is something you want.

Joey

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