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| FunDanceMan | PostPosted: Fri Jul 26, 2013 3:04 pm | |
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Posts: 71 | | Almost of the girls Im seeing have Friends With Benefits. It's crazy how many open relationships and fwb there are these days.
The one I really do like though is starting to fall for her FWB. (Like the others) her FWB is her best friend. So it puts you in a weird place. They have emotional history, where you're the new guy. They can do the sexual casual thing often. The FWB tend to appear extra alpha and laid back. "Oh you wanna date this other dude? Cool"
Lately, with the girl Im seeing, I'm still in the picture, but theres a noticeable drop. She talks about him often and is probably in her #1 slot. I guess it makes sense with the emotional history and long period of knowing each other.
Is there something I can do to gain the top position again? Anyone ever been in a situation like this? I feel like FWB are a tricky thing to handle.
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| ASmoothEminence | PostPosted: Sat Jul 27, 2013 7:49 am | |
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Posts: 85 | | Develop your own history with this girl. Keep it up. Create emotional connections + sex = you being on her mind more often. It takes time and you need to work at it. If your goal is to make this girl your girlfriend then naturally your mindset should be of a boyfriend. Little by little will make her yours.
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| LD | PostPosted: Sat Jul 27, 2013 9:21 am | |
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Joined: Fri Nov 12, 2010 3:57 pm
Posts: 571 | | It may also help to be or become a better fuck... sex is imo the greatest way to deeply bond with a woman.
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| Eddie Fews | PostPosted: Sat Jul 27, 2013 5:19 pm | |
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Location: New York City | | The guy that cares the least is always going to be in the top position out of all the guys are girl is dealing with. If I'm being honest, the fact that you made this post suggest that you care a little too much to snag that position as of now. When you stop caring about getting advice because you " Know" you're going to get her you'll be ready. You just may want to properly assess that situation... Are you sure this is what you want? And why do you want her?
A girl banging a few different guys while she is in love with one isn't exactly someone I could consider a candidate for a relationship. But thats just me. _________________ Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com
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