Hi All

I broke up with my Ex bout 6 months back, we hung out a bit but got more and more distant she kept saying i want us to be friends , i dnt want us to be friends stay out my life etc etc, and ive been seeing other girls she been sleeping around from best i can tell lmao anyway...

Ive been getting close to one of her mates, last night about 1 AM they invite me out, clearly a little drunk on the phone, said we are down by this river come see us "Her friend on her phone" so i said yea ok ....

Went to meet them couldnt find them said meet me here they said on our way they took some times so i tried calling again no answer multiple times...

so i text saying "im heading in as your not answer c u another time" i live like 2 mins from the meeting point...

but my head them went shit what if somethings happened there both drunk, there hanging out by a river !!! so i went looking again...

found them this time...

the "friend" curled up in a ball no trousers on on the floor behind a bush, and my Ex girlfriend fucking this guy i no on the floor cowgirl style, i called out dirty gits! in a joke way, and my ex jumped off as if it wasnt happening, i just looked at them and went "your ok then" my ex went "yea"...

i said good im going in, next time answer ya phone u tell me your drunk by a river i worry...

anyway, in a mood i put this on my FB page "get pulled away from a good night to be ignored and disrespected by two so called friends"...

the friend sent me these messages within a few minates its 2 AM by now but my EX girlfriend hasnt said anything at all and they where staying in the same house last night....

friend:sorry so drunk
friend: u k ?
friend: sorry man but how did we disrespect you?
friend: i know im retared and got really drunk but im sorry x
friend: i dont want to loose you as a friend
me: DW bout it
friend: Im really sorry x

how do i react from here because tbh i saw red in the moment and just wanted to shout u fucking skanks have some self respect fucking behind a bush on the mud at your fucking age like 2 minates from there house i might add!!!

but how do i react if either message me today i no i shouldnt really show i care but also want to make it clear its pissed me off???

My exs owes me some money but im tempted to text saying forget the money just stay outta my life, and stop wasting my fucking time, but is this wrong?

NOTE: I HAVE BEEN ONLINE ON MY PHONE ALL MORNING AND THEY HAVE BOTH BEEN ON AND OFF WITHOUT A WORD...SO I AM AVAILABLE TO TALK TO IF THEY NEED

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I liked the way you handled yourself when you saw them in person- you didn't freak out/ lose your cool

I didn't like anything after that. You shouldn't have typed anything on facebook/etc. You should have made it look like you didn't care or were surprised. The facebook status let your ex know that she got to you.

So how do you react to this? STOP reacting to it. Let it go, and no you don't have to absolve your ex of any money she owes you - just go back to business as usual - show that you are over her and she no longer has sway over your emotions.
Translation: "I want to see how much I can toy with your emotions."


No, No, No. This is exactly what NOT to do. Let it go man, she and her friend definitely do not seem worth any kind of time/emotional investment.

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To your friends "I don't want to lose you as a friend" a simple "Fuck off" - then delete her from your life would do.

To you ex, well. You should be glad that you don't date her anymore. Forget both of them, forever and go and get decent friends/girlfriend, because many of them are out there.