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A lot of negative ideas about women stem from pornography and masturbation. If you are taking part in that, I recommend that you get it under control. The word "cunt" for example: You likely learned that word from looking at porn. I'm 100% serious. Stop looking at porn. Get a subscription to Playboy instead and use it to pique your interest in women. Start to love women rather than envy the men who get the women.
This doesn't mean you have to never masturbate again, but you would benefit greatly by being in control of that aspect of yourself and remember that sex is a pleasure, not a commodity to be traded.
my negative ideas come mostly from dealing with shit. i dont look at porn. i masturbate tho.
ive wanted to come to terms with my "expectations" before, but they prove right everytime.
what i mean by this is : for instance, i was with this girl the other day and we were having a good time, and this extremely fucking hot chick walks in-so i make it a point to continue what i was doing and not even look at the hot chick because i know the other girl would get jealous. we end up going outside and i kiss her before she leaves, and the hot chick walks out of the store and again-i dont pay ANY fucking attention to her(you have no idea how hard this was-and i could see she was packin a 10 ass out of the corner of my eye) and i keep looking at my girl. my girl stares at her as the hot chick walks away and there is just so much fucking envy and hatred exuding out of her eyes even tho i wasnt looking at her. . . .things like these are not really "dealbreakers" per say, but are definately red flags(ive had to learn this the hard way)-and other things like this have caused me to gravitate the fuck away fromer.
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