I'm quite in the dumps at the moment. My mates are all engaged/married etc and they very rarely go out.

As a consequence, I'm not meeting as much women as I'd like to be. I hate sarging on my own, I think it's more fun when you have a group of people around you and are able to draw women into the group or vice versa.

However when they go out, they tend to go to loud nightclubs where nobody can hear each other. I cannot attact girls that way as I'm deaf and cannot hear people in nightclubs, even when they shout.

Also since I haven't sarged for a while, my confidence has dropped considerably. I was out last week outside a bar, and I tried to sarge this woman, but she found out about my hearing loss via my accent, and started taking the piss out of my accent. This happens quite a few times and I start to lose my confidence further (no I cannot change my voice, I'm deaf but I can speak).

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I may get flamed for this but when I had no one to sarge with I took to online game. It's perfect for easy dates if you have a good profile. PM me for an example of a successful profile. It led me to my current LTR and quite a few dates.

Be upfront about being deaf before the meet though. I always disclose my height (5'5) early to weed out the shallow B's.