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 Post subject: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:16 am 
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Referring to my previous post.

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Is this girl seems to be losing interest when I ask her out? or am I just saying the wrong thing?


Here is how i asked her.

Me: Hey want to go dinner on saturday?

The girl: "Start asking a bunch of questions"... oh i havent been to that resturant. blah blah blah. And then she asked how many coupons do u have?

Me: enough for just 2.

And then she didnt reply. I tried texting her a couple days later, but she doesnt reply.

Is she ignoring me because she lost interest and doesnt want to go out with me?

Or am I just confusing her, and I need to be clear that this is a date and I want to start something with her?


PS: referring to my previous post, this girl is clear into me a month ago. asking my number, asking if i have a gf. asking me to go for dinner. etc


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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:22 am 
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She's maybe looking for a relationship and you give her discredit when you've said: "enough for just 2", that's a bad answer, you should always be fun and assertive and you did not :\
You are showing to her your bad personality, the worst you can do is to get angry to her, chill out, girls do shit all the time!

I don't know what you should say, but when i screw the things up i don't text her and i act in person as if nothing ever happened.

My best tip is:
There is 2 realities in people minds, one is Live, other is online, texting, whatever...
When you have both and you screw one reality you can go along with the other, well... since you haven't connected both as one (which i believe you did because you invited her by sms to a live date, so you've connected both realities, so well fuck!).
But maybe she didn't notice that, who cares, try again, but don't text her! Talk to her in school as if nothing happened, see her reactions and fix the shit you did. But don't text her in a few days when you are fixing the shit you did! If you sms her, it will trigger her idea that you were an asshole to her and she'll avoid to text you back once again!

In school act if nothing happened, talk as you talked to her, don't talk about the sms you've sent to each other or what ever, and don't show that you are angry because she didn't reply to them! And the problem will disappear by itself.

One girl did this to me once, and i've learned the power that this has, it might seams stupid and i would think the same if i haven't tried it and had this personal experience.

Give it a try, you wouldn't loss anything!!!
Also make her friends a good friends of you, they would help you out when you need. Give them what they want, like help them on school and shit... They'll love you and want to help you guys out! Friends things :)

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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:37 am 
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Coupons? Maybe that's what scared her away!

JK mate...

You could go cold on her and wait to see what happens, or you could let a few days pass and simply try again with a more firm approach:

"I'm going to X on X day at X time and you should join me"

If she flakes again or starts whining about coupons, move on cause she's fucking with you and likes the attention.


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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 10:15 pm 
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She's maybe looking for a relationship and you give her discredit when you've said: "enough for just 2", that's a bad answer, you should always be fun and assertive and you did not :\
You are showing to her your bad personality, the worst you can do is to get angry to her, chill out, girls do shit all the time!

I don't know what you should say, but when i screw the things up i don't text her and i act in person as if nothing ever happened.

My best tip is:
There is 2 realities in people minds, one is Live, other is online, texting, whatever...
When you have both and you screw one reality you can go along with the other, well... since you haven't connected both as one (which i believe you did because you invited her by sms to a live date, so you've connected both realities, so well fuck!).
But maybe she didn't notice that, who cares, try again, but don't text her! Talk to her in school as if nothing happened, see her reactions and fix the shit you did. But don't text her in a few days when you are fixing the shit you did! If you sms her, it will trigger her idea that you were an asshole to her and she'll avoid to text you back once again!

In school act if nothing happened, talk as you talked to her, don't talk about the sms you've sent to each other or what ever, and don't show that you are angry because she didn't reply to them! And the problem will disappear by itself.

One girl did this to me once, and i've learned the power that this has, it might seams stupid and i would think the same if i haven't tried it and had this personal experience.

Give it a try, you wouldn't loss anything!!!
Also make her friends a good friends of you, they would help you out when you need. Give them what they want, like help them on school and shit... They'll love you and want to help you guys out! Friends things :)
can you emphasize why "enough for just 2" is a bad answer?

We won't see each other at school again..... the semester is over and I am transferring to another college.


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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 10:34 pm 
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Yes it sounds bad, that's why you have to be careful with texting to avoid bad understandings.
Can't tell you why exactly but it seams rude to me, it seams that you got mad at her because she didn't stop to ask you questions.

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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:03 pm 
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Yes it sounds bad, that's why you have to be careful with texting to avoid bad understandings.
Can't tell you why exactly but it seams rude to me, it seams that you got mad at her because she didn't stop to ask you questions.
I think Imma give it a try in a couple days or week... since I wont be seeing her in person again, do you think I should text or call her? When I do that, should I be clear that I am asking her out on a date, and not just friends hanging out?


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 Post subject: Re: This girl is weird
PostPosted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 2:35 am 
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