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I am pretty new to this so please bare with me,
I met this girl while playing soccer a few weeks ago. We are on the same team so I see her weekly. I got her number and we have been texting a little bit and I am interested in her. I just don't know how to let her know this without coming on too strong. I used to just be able to walk up to girls and start talking to them without even a second thought, but I am more self concious about being rejecting since i would most likely have to see her again. I have been trying to look for IOIs but I am not sure if I am reading her right (or anyone for that matter). I guess I need to make her more aware of me and sort of qualify myself. If anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it and if I am doing anything wrong please let me know. Thank you
Do not qualify yourself. She needs to qualify herself.
Simpilist advice:
Do not always be available to her (do not immediatly respond to her texts. Make her wait some time for responses. The wait can even be a few hours)
Tease her about something. Little things and not to overt.
E.G., Call her a silly girl, but say she is cute
U: You are such a silly girl, but you are so cute (I would pinch her on the check lightly)
Invite her into your world for a bit.
e.g., Hey, a bunch of us are going to be here XXX, you should come.
Kino (Get physical with her - look it up around here)
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Recommended reading list.
Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)
http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)
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