Hi, I'm digging this chick nowadays. She is taller than me. she's kinda known as a slut but has very shy personality. She is so shy that sometimes makes me wonder how she's been known as a girl who bangs a lot of guys. My big question is how do you deal with this type of shy slut and get in bed with her? I'll tell you how it went down with this chick so far but you don't really have to read the whole story if you have a good answer to the question.



she's a tall girl, about 5' 10' (1 inch taller than me), has a dark hair, like to wear black jacket and black coat like the character from the movie "Underworld" (Kate Beckinsale). Actually she likes that movie, too. Everytime I see her at the bar, she always wears black jacket. The first time I met her was the beginning of Feburary so it's been 2 months but actually we've met only 6 times since we're not really friends. we are more like "downtown-friend" or "drinking-friend". person that you would only see when you go to the bar. I got to know her through my buddy and I got an interesting story when I first met her in my buddy's car, I thought she was one of those stuck-up bitch cuz she looked really tall and wore bad-ass black bike jacket. My buddy picked her up and we went to the bar. I thought I was right she never talked to me there (even to my buddy who drove her). I thought she was just stuck-up until I met her on the dancefloor of the club after. Music was loud and she noticed me and said hey. I hey her back and we just danced on our own. All of sudden, she gave me this sign that (I don't really remember what it was) but something that implies "I want you". so I was like "50/50. idc if she rejects me but I'll just go for it". started hitting her "bottom" from behind. Next thing you know, she grabbed me closer and started to grind me like crazy. It was for 25min I guess and then she left without turning back.
Next week, I met her again at the bar and said "I didn't catch your name." and got her name and then I told her "I didn't know you had a wild side." (I thought it was a good line) She replies, "Well, when I get drunk (I usually act like this)". And then we shared some more conversation and I thought it went well so I added her on facebook next day.
Third time, we met at the different bar. I spotted her she was sitting and talking to her best friend. I remember at that time I told her how she smelled great, what kind of perfume do you use?" she said some brand of course I couldn't know the girly perfume, And conversation stopped. She's not the type of person who talks to a guy first. Awkward moment came up, I pretended to go to the bathroom. The night with her just ended that awkwardly.
Fourth time, met her at the club. we danced but this time on our own. BUT, after the club is closed, me and my buddy and her and her best friend went to her house which is just 3 blocks away from downtown. She sat on the couch watching some clips with me. Unfortunately, some prick neighbor joined us and brought the dog with him it kinda ruined the mood. But during this "after-party hangout", she didn't mind showing off her thong while she was playing with the dog. It was pretty ok night until that neighbor showed up.
Fifth time, I met her at the bar. this time I bought her a drink. vodka-cranberry? and had a conversation about her work. But I barely heard nothing nor remembered anything. that night just ended like that. I thought I should have said something flirty about her appearance than general conversation. Only little progress I made here was finally I got her number. (I could've asked her number earlier but I'm still thinking asking her # at this point was very well done and way spontaneous)
Sixth time, met her at the bar. Before I came up to her, I made a eye contact first and then told her "You look dark and mysterious as usual." because she was wearing that black bike jacket again. I was expecting her good reaction but she just said nonchalantly "Then it (wearing black jacket) worked (to look mysterious) I guess" and then conversation stopped again. This time she seemed to feel awkward too so she introduced me her friends. 30min later we went to the club, danced on our own. and then we went to her house again but this time. There were so many people there that I barely even talked to her. The only little progress I made I guess this time I got in her room with her when she tried to change her shoes. This situation would have been great if this crazy a-hole wouldn't come up to her room and asked "what are you guys doing here?". such a party pooper. (that guy obviously wanted her as well). and after that she talked to the other guys and I talked to the other people. That night ended like that. That was last Saturday and here I am. What should I do to make a better progress? there's some rumor I heard she is a slut so there is no way she will save 'til marriage. but what I need here is how to treat her right to get in her pants? Please let me know..

At any point during this interaction, did you try to get her #?
At any point during this interaction, did you try to get her #? Fuck Facebook!
At any point during THIS interaction, did you try to get her #?
That damn neighbor guy! There is NO possible way you could have isolated her and escalated, or gotten her number!
TA DA!
The amount of people deliberately trying to cock block you is completely insurmountable! Shutting the door would have been WAY to obvious!

Shy Slut?? or Shy PUA? Sounds stupid when I say it like that huh?

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1. The club too loud,
2. After she left me I never got to see her again at that night so I couldn't even try
If I did shut the door, that probably would have freaked her out. so I didn't.

I know I agree. I've been playing really safe because I didn't want to blow this chance. And guys, here is her characteristics that I didn't mention above:

1. She's not really affectionate in general which makes me really confused because the other girlfriends I have, they are being very affectionate to me but they aren't sluts.

2. First time I got invited to her house, she was very affectionate; ex) sitting on my lap, secretly showing off her thong (like I said) and etc,

3. She likes me Maybe I'm not the only one who gets liked by her but at least she sees me as one of her "candidates". I can def sense through her eyes that she's interested in me. Just everytime we have a convo, it gets awkward.

4. She's not really trying to make a joke out of conversation which make me really hard to keep the chat going.


help me

Okay first off; Why do you insist on calling her "SLUT"?

Because someone told you she was? Your not a sheep, your a Man, and Men make their own minds.

You've met 6-7 times and have not even kissed her. Slutty? I don't think so!
You "It's loud, I'm going to shut this a minute, okay?."

No reason to "freak out" it's her call.
This was her, telling- NO Begging you in a very typically non slutty way, to excite her, escalate her, and ravage her little body!
Stop babbling and make a move! That's why it gets awkward!
This is exactly HOW you blow your chance!
I am

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Then please tell me specifically HOW I can make a move. you could give me some examples; clever lines and etc.

easy for you to say "just do what you have in mind", but one false move, the chick will think of me as creeper

I cannot just say "I want you" straight it will turn her off. also I cannot use the overused “your-body-looks-so-hot” compliment. It'd be awesome if you would go into detail about how I can say to her.

I need some clever lines that doesn't mean straight but IMPLIES the meaning of "I wanna do you"

I think you have confidence issues. I was going to write all you have to do but is to much. Research it man. Be a man and do what needs to be done. If you are worried "what if she thinks im a creeper" what if this, what if that then you obviously need to practice more or just go for it. Men dont worry about that. Try it, if it doesnt work out then move on to the next. If she is a "slut" as you say then you would have banged her already. You are taking to long. You might actually not even bang her since you waited to long.

Like the OP says, it would be a lot of damn writing.

But here is a good outline: http://infothread.org/Pick%20Up%20Artis ... Ladder.pdf

There is no magic pill/fantastic line, except for perhaps BOLDNESS!

YOU have to do the work!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.