I've already posted about this girl before, but it now seems she is angry at me and I don't know if it's definitely over or not. I know I became too emotional invested, which showed needy traits to a degree. I will give you an update on the situation;
I bumped into the girl again in a bar last Saturday. I did initially suggest we should meet up via text but I could tell she wasn't up for it, so left it. But it turned out me and my wing we're heading to the same bar, so bumped into her and hooked up. I could tell the vibe I got with her wasn't as strong as before (i.e. less strong ioi's - hair twirling and eye-contact, and she didn't ask about me as much), but saying this it was to a point, until I stayed too long and didn't leave when I should have. We were heading to a club, and she was heading to another bar before heading home with her girlfriend who was staying the night with her. She said they weren't going to a club, even though I told her we had guest list. I wasn't going to push it. I told her to text me when she got home because that's what she did with me (even though I waited for her to text me usually). I got home much later that night, and text her I just got home, but she missed a fun night out at club and casino. Got up next day on Sunday - no response to that statement, even though before she would have.
I waited a few days and text her on the Tuesday with;
Me: Hey you...can you keep a secret? x
HB: Yeah?
HB: *yeah?
Me: Shh, don't tell anyone I said this... I met this girl who is really cute. But she's weirdly into self-harm drama (a play she is doing at her work in theatre) and I think all she wanted to do was to get into my pants...
HB: I really hope you are joking
I then waited until Thursday, to ask her out again, but knowing after reading your blog that it probably wouldn't work, but wanted to gauge her interest level and try and get her out at the weekend, so she wouldn't go out to a club, as the night I pulled her, a lot of guys tried to get her.
Me: Good news, I've finally cleared my singing voice!
So how about cocktails on Saturday? x
HB: I'm busy, Also, why do you think that I am not texting you?
Me: That's fine, so do you want to stop seeing me then?
HB: That's not the question I asked, do you know why?
Me: Well something is clearly wrong, so tell me why then...
HB: Well, I think you should just look at Saturday night and I think the answer will be there!
Me: Let's talk on the phone and sort this out...
Phoned her 5 minutes later, predictably no response. So thought I should text her to set it straight before going to bed
Me: I apologise for Saturday. I know I crossed the line by staying too long, but we were going there anyway and I didn't know you were there until I got there. You looked really sexy, and I couldn't help myself after meeting your work friends... Are we cool?
She hasn't replied back, and that was Thursday night. I know I must be the prize and she must chase, which initially I was, and I was also centred, grounded and masculine too, which highly attracted her to her beliefs. But I became to predictable and boring firstly, and then I became too attached in my actions which pissed her off. Does it sound like she is still open to seeing me? As she didn't answer, initially I thought this was open and a good thing, but now I think she just didn't want to say... Or should I just wait and see if she contacts me? I would just like to know whether to actually try and 'let go'...
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