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Hey guys,
Well, I need some advice here.
So I own a company and we've partnered with another company and there are these 2 sisters who own it. The younger sister is really cute and I think I've started liking her. Lets call her T. She's 25 and I'm 26, both single.
T and I went out for dinner 2 months ago, we drank wine, got to know each other and really enjoyed each other's company.
She was travelling abroad for a while, so we kept in touch on SPAM.
After she was back, we are working on a project together. We have to meet after 6 PM sometimes and work till late night. It's just me and her in the my office.
Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry.
I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to. I don't want to push it, not sure if she's into me or not. I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants.
She's not into one night stands or stuff like that. She's only been in two serious relationships so far.
Do I tell her that I like her and see what she says? We are meeting again tomorrow evening and going out after work to celebrate our project launch.
If she doesn't likes me or if she rejects me, it would be very weird working with her. And we have some long term business plans with her as well as her brother's company.
What do I do?
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Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry.
So she is different?
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I kino quite often with her, standing close to her, touching her arms, holding her back, touching my leg to hers while working closely. Nothing sexual though.
Because your afraid she will reject you?
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I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants.
So then you don't want to get in her pants?
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I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to.
That's YOU, and your fear of rejection, THAT'S the something!
If don't escalate....and soon you will be lost in LJBF's zone forever!
Is it the business arrangement your afraid you will damage?
Chances are slim, she has been "Hit on" before. She is not going to throw a tantrum or puke, or call the police, you will be fine.
If it doesn't work out, blow it off your a confidant guy, no big deal. It never happened!
Ask your self, what's worse, a couple days of awkward or a lifetime wondering?