Hello guys,

I'm new to the community and I was seeking some urgent advice. I'll try and keep this short. Basically, I'm 20 years old, and I am a psychology student at my university graduating next year, and I have to work on my senior research project that is completely independent. However, I asked this HB (I think I used the term right?) to work with me on my research because her interests in the field of psychology are similar, and my mentor recommended that I ask her for assistance.

So I did. I contacted her via e-mail to let her know that I heard from my mentor that she might be interested in this research, and that I was asking other students that were interested in this type of research whether they wanted to be a part of it. I talked to her a bit over e-mail, and I told her that I would fill her in on the basics of the research after class on Tuesday (two weeks ago). So I talked to her after class, and she was pretty excited about working on this. To the point that she asked me if I could get together over break to discuss this. I told her that I wouldn't be in town, but that I would like to meet with her for coffee at 3pm next Wednesday.

I got some good body language from her when I was talking to her, but I want to know how to advance from here. I am interested in her, to say the least. I've had a good number of girlfriends, I've gotten laid a good number of times by different women, but I think according to the PUA criteria, I am an AFC considering that I can't get this girl out of my mind (one-itis) and she is probably the most beautiful girl I've tried to get with. Can anyone advise me on how to proceed from here? I don't really want to make this awkward for her since this was originally research-oriented, but I really want to get with her. I don't really have a solid game plan for when I go to meet her next week, and I have been trying desperately to read a lot of PUA material online, watch videos on Mystery's Method, and even 'The Game' by Neil Strauss before my meeting with her. I can't do much PUA reading over this week (I tried to read a lot of PUA stuff yesterday and today) because I have a lot of work that I have to get to as well, so I really need quick tips, or anything I can use for next week.

Thank you all in advance.

Regards,

Desenz

Treat her like a normal fuckin human being. Don't show reaction towards beautiful women because they are beautiful. Act around her as you have around the other girls you've been with and you will see similar results. Don't try new shit on the ones that actually mean something to you. Keep in mind, if you fuck up... there's plenty more out there. Enjoy your date bro.

Well, I took your advice. And while it seemed that she was pulling away, she contacted me 3 days later after not having contact with her, and she asked me out on a date. At this point, I really don't know much about her. Any advice on how to be flirty, confident, and how to make sure I don't talk about myself too much when we meet up? How do I create an open, and comfortable environment for her?