Weird situation. Tell me what you think guys.

So I meet this chick in my neighborhood while shes out walking her dog. Talk for no more than 2 minutes, she asks for my number. I give it to her and go on my way. Shes cute and friendly. Maybe this has potential.

So she starts txting me all the time. Asks me when we're going to go out. I'm busy but we agree on about a week from now. Next day she keeps txting me and doing a little flirting. Tells me she doesn't want to wait a week and keeps pushing it, I relent eventually and meet her for a quick coffee.

So we meet up. We have nothing to talk about. Shes cold around me, theres awkward silence all the time, no IOIs, and I get the impression that if I try to get anywhere near her or touch her in any way she's going to give me a look of pure evil. Shes friendly still, but just absolutely no sign of anything there. Oh well, whatever, can't win em all.

Then not 15 minutes after I get home from that mess of a coffee date, she starts txting me again. Tells me how much she enjoyed being around me. Says shes glad I didn't make her wait. I'm pretty confused, I thought she had beyond zero interest. The next day, today, she goes back to txting me all the time. Tells me she's taking her dog for another walk and insists I join them. I do. She's a little more open than at coffee but mostly the same stuff. Awkward silence. No IOIs. Not a lot of smiling. Talks a little bit more but its pretty forced conversation. I'm thinking... yeah, she's not enjoying this at all. Walk ends and I go to head home but then she invites me into her place. But silence continues and I decide to get out of there before it gets even more awkward. Figure, well, that seals the deal... theres no potential here.

Before I'm even back at my place I start getting txts from her again. Saying shes glad I came and hopes we can do it again soon. Wtf? Shes definitely not shy or nervous around me. I don't think thats the problem.

I have no idea whats going on here. This is a new one on me. She's friendly enough that I don't want to write her off and she's hot enough that I wouldn't mind F-closing her, but in person she gives me all the signals I'd get from a girl that wants absolutely nothing at all to do with me and I wouldn't even consider trying to escalate things with. Maybe she just has some kind of personality issue. But how do you escalate things with someone like that? This whole thing is weird. What would you guys do?

Ive met some girls who were quite timid around me but who turned out to be no angels. Ive also met girls like this that turn out to be virgins! I can only give you my opinion from what i have read. Get closer to her, start with friendly touch then slowly increase it. Sometimes i feel i have to take control of the conversation to ease the mood and even sometimes force laughter! If shes messaging you, your fine in my opinion its up to you to push the point!

Dont look for IOIs then. Make a move. Kiss her. Fuck her. You're looking for a green light when you should just escalate until you get a "NO."

Dude, she has an agenda. Women don't do what you say this woman is doing.

She's using you to get over an ex or something........ Maybe even worse.

She's cold because she's just hoping you will fuck her and get it over with. No attraction.

If you're "that guy," just go ahead and fuck her, but don't be surprised if she ignores you after that. Or something worse happens.

Be really careful with this one.

Thanks for the reply. You mention "something worse"... what are you implying?

I have a job that implies a pretty high income level the second people hear it. I don't go around bragging but when you're asked what you do and you tell them, you know what they're thinking. I always get a little worried that chicks that seem too into me for no reason are after that. I don't want one whos goal is to get knocked up.