Hey,

So I'm trying to get a 3rd date. Ask her last night what she is up to this weekend? She responds several hours later saying tha she has a brunch in the morning and later she doesn't know. It's late so I ignore and in the morning tell ask her if she wants to go to a comedy club.

Several hours later she says that it sounds fun, her plans are up in the air.

I know lately she has been dating or isn't against it. I really like her and would prefer to her but don't wanna show it.

I said "no worries, well I am going Saturday night let me know sooner than later" she said will do!

So I get It she could have something else lined up. When would it be appropriate for her to let me know? If she flakes no big deal but should I ask her about another day. I prefer to know where I stand than having bs quasi friendships for a long time