I think as a beginner the biggest mistake I made was solely focusing on picking up women, however, that's not really the goal of your life is it? Tons of people have given me great advice here, so in return I'll give mine.

My advice is that before/while picking up women one should be improving oneself in all aspects of life. First and foremost before anything one should try to be the best one can be.

I started from a low level of confidence & garnered my self confidence not by my successes with women, but rather the fact that I would work everyday to improve myself. I would literally wake up every morning with the excitement of I'm gonna give all I got to the world today.

For most beginners I hope you read this & don't make the same mistake I made for several months of focusing on solely working on picking up women and not improving myself at the same time. If you come from a high level confidence, have great social skills, and determination prior to entering pick up then any information you read on picking up girls will make you a lethal combination

No matter how much pick up shit you learn girls (or at least the girls worth dating) can smell low level of confidence a mile away.

I have ton of suggestions for books on self improvement just post a reply if any of you are interested.


"Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming." -John Wooden

I forgot to put in the critical thinking is one of the most important weapons one can have and literally change your view on life.

Change your questions, change your life is a great book for this

I support this statement.

Improve yourself in every aspect you can and women will flock to you.

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