So there is this girl I had met a couple weeks ago for a non-strings relationship. We got food talked for hours and had a good time, and then went back to her place talked more fooled around a little and then talked more. She had just gotten out of a relationship

I knew I liked her far more than just a fuck buddy, asked her to hang out the next day she said she couldn't do fwb ( I also knew it was during her period so she was extra emotional). i told her I could do the same. Kept texting her every couple days and we would goback and forth for a long time.Finally she actually texted me first

I knew there was some guy who blew her off for a 2nd date so I decided to swoop in and instead of asking in vague terms to hang out make plans.

We went to a movie, but took the train before and walked around then got drinks. All around good vibes and fun. We walked back to her house and it was kind of understood I'd stay over but not in what context. We talked laughed . I went in for a kiss but she only went for the cheek. I asked if she wanted me to stay over and you started saying it was no big deal if I wanted to go acouple times but I could tell she wanted me to stay. I told her don't over think it I always do what I want, I just wanted to ask. Some of the night I had my arm around her some not. Next day we laughed some more and walked back ( my house was on the way to her train)

I know this girl doesn't want to give it up just to any guy like she had in the past, and honestly I like her enough to take it slow. As far as escalation the previous time we had seen each other naked and all that so its not like she doesn't know what that is like.

I was thinking/hoping that she just wanted to take it slow and see if I was just there to f her or not. She seemed like she had a lot of fun, and rarely do I ever sleep over at a girls house and not do anything but it seemed comfortable.

Does it sound like I am being friend zoned or she just wants to take it slow.

Thanks for reading this long post but you guys are the best!

Also, at this stage when would be a good idea to contact her again?

Yeah, it sounds like since she just got out of a relationship she's trying not to rush things.

Still, back off a little and give her some space if she seems to get TOO friendly around you. Taking it slow is all well and fine, but being put in the LJBF zone hurts.

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Exactly stop being so available make her contact you first to hang

Well I just told her I had fun a day later but didn't ask her out again.

Its interesting because i've seen her naked and we have fooled around already. And I'm pretty sure it will happen again

So you said you saw her naked and fooled around, what exactly does that mean(like were you peeping in on her, and then once she was dressed decided to wrestle on the floor or do you mean sex we need details here)? Also you asked her if she wanted you to stay, then before she could respond you gave her an out? You should be the one saying that you "need to go soon, but let me get a drink of water... oh what is this picture of that's so cool, hey is this your room", make your way to her room for the close man. Also how do you know she doesn't want to just give it out to any guy? Lets assume she doesn't, you should be that guy man. Be that guy she wants to fuck.

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Hey I thought I explained how it went in the original post. First time we meet for for a no-strings thing, we did hook up a little. Both realized it wasn't for us just to be casual, so I was trying to ask her out, finally it happened.

The rest of the post is from that time

Bad sign. If she isn't chasing you down, then she is just stringing you along. Run away.

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