Alright I kinda in a situation here. I work with this girl that I like and started talking to her after awhile she would purposely bump into me ask me to feel her palms to see if there oily, I even held her hand and rubbed my thumb on the palm of her hand to see what she would do and she just smiled. She also asked to use my jacket as well, also she asked if she can have a sip of my coffee. Well I waited till it was just the two of us alone well I was asking her when she works and she said Friday but wasn't sure about Saturday, then I said well lets hangout Saturday she said maybe in a sorta high pitched voice and asked if I had Facebook. She does not have a phone# to give me, so i added her, after that when she was leaving she looked back smiling at me and said bye in a soft voice. Now did she just politely say no or is she playing hard to get?? please help me with this situation thanks in advance.
I actually asked her out Friday after work and she said, shes busy and mentioned shes seeing someone and that he might not be to happy about that. Is this chick just lying to me or just likes the attention, she never mentioned having a boyfriend. Thank you in advance.

Women nearly always have a guy they are talking to. So that's probably true. The fact she mentioned it means she's not all that interested. She obviously wants your attention either way, but it may be on a platonic level. Nothing she's done screams "I want you" it more so says, "You're the nice guy I work with who I'm comfortable around."

Sorry man. But unless you can turn Bond overnight, she's probably a lost cause.

She said "he" wouldn't be too happy about it. She didn't say "she " wouldn't do it or that she wouldn't like it. I think she would. Keep gaming her.

I forgot to add she even told me she was on her period.

If you didn't reply with a comment about red wings, you missed a great opportunity.
You're in the friend zone. Forget about gaming her. Just game other girls in front of her and show her what she is missing. She's the one missing out on you.

Good luck

Props to Brantley for the call.

There are ways to get out of the friend zone are there not.

Yes. But usually something dramatic has to take place first. The truth is they work together which is already a recipe for disaster. You go playing mind fuck games trying to get out of friend-zone and your liable to be looking for a new job.

My advice. Make her the friend you talk about women with. Get your "women's point of view" from her.

This is good stuff & sound advice, so I decided to get your quick opinion on gaming/escalating a girl in a community college class room. Negging has already place and my social value in the room is high. Only kino that has happened is using the back of the hand to emphasize points...

First of all, on most forums thread hijacks are frowned apon. But seeing as how this one is about dead I'll toss my advice your way.

The saying "You miss every chance you don't take" holds true.

Here's what I'm seeing:
-You obviously like the girl.
-You're a man and she's a woman.
-You're being chicken shit
-You are reading all the wrong information here.

First off, a man's job is to court a woman. It's instinctual and the core drive of a masculine man. A man reaches for what he wants. He makes the necessary moves to obtain his goals. Whether it be to obtain a degree, a promotion or the girl. So keep that in mind. Your job as a man is to make a move.

So you're in this class, you've been dicking around for half a semester with pussy ass moves and just now you want to "escalate things? This may be your biggest struggle. She decided if you were someone she'd date in the first few moments you two met. It's been some time and you've shown you like her with the flirtation. The only way forward is with bold honestly. Drop all the fake PUA bullshit. Don't neg, don't open with some canned routine. Be on point. Tell her. "Hey, I like you, you turn me on. Lets go on an adventure". Be serious! Take that girl on a freaking adventure. Have fun with her. Get away from school for a bit. Live it up with her as your side kick. Believe THIS IS GOING TO HAPPEN.

Good shit. Appreciate the advice. I just got too comfortable & content; The comfort zone is where dreams die.