Here we go - I've been out sarging for the past couple years, low numbers probably only 5-6 number closes a week but haven't done the relationship thing for a while, just been enjoying myself.

There's a friend that I've hung w/a dozen or so times from one of my social circles but never solo, used her as a wing while we've been out etc and basically just have fun, never tried to game her. I've never asked for her number, never called her or like I said hung out with her solo before.

So I haven't talked to her in probably a year, then I got a hold of her through FB and ended up getting her number & calling her up. She was super excited saying how much she missed me etc blah blah blah.

I set up a solo date with her, we go out have drinks everything is crazy comfy but I still don't run any game on her, light kino but no K-Close or anything, she ends the date saying how happy she is that I'm back and how we always have so much fun together.

She's just way too much like a guy - loves football, drinks beer and whisky, shoots pool, and what's freaking me out is she already invited me out for our next date/hangout whatever - I am not used to chicks taking charge of anything we do, that's usually me.

So we've gone out on 2 dates now, I'm calling more frequently than I'm used to when I'm gaming girls and now I'm actually slacking on my Sarging.

So my question is because after a few years being single, I actually find myself liking this girl but wtf... I'm feeling AFC because of it?!

I honestly don't know what to do, part of me wants to see about starting a relationship, another part of me is saying WTF are you thinking... and another part just doesn't know how to even begin a relationship or even bring it up with her.

Basically she's thrown me way off my game.

What do I do?

Your thinking to much in the long run man take it day by day, theres no need to make a decision now if what you want or don't want with her but if you hang out with her more you'll know the answer after awhile, just be sure to look out for red flags though

Yep. Just know that the game doesn't change, but she can become disinterested if she feels that you are not into her(its how they backwards rationalize what they perceive as rejection). If she's not a wing anymore I say go for it. If you fuck her and like her, then keep fucking her and going out with her and then wammo she's your new GF. Don't bring up the word relationship evar! Trust me if she wants one she will bring it up they always do.

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Couldn't say it better myself

Yep thanks. That's the part I was getting confused about...different Gaming a girl that you want a relationship with verses just a hookup. I've been looking up so long that a relationship is out of the question, or I just never thought I would want .

so basically treat her like everyone else.