Hi all i will keep it short

I have got some fb closes lately , and they all seem to flake somehow after a week when i decide to msg them , lol i don't really know why i have applied some field tested msgs i know shit happens but if anyone could help in this situation i would appreciate it , so

Basically i met two girls fb closed , then after a week msged them both but one seemed not interested and hardly responded to my msg , so i gave up on them after some days i met another girl who is actually friend of those two girls and also fb closed , this one is my last successful one , so i sent a msg to one of the first set who responded quite well to my msgs on fb and invited them both , then they seemed to already have plans somewhere else ,

would it look so needy if i contact the last girl who is friend of the two others via fb to have a date , since i know she would tell her friends about it and i don't like to look needy or tryhard

what should i do to get the last one who i liked more to have a date with me via fb ?????

Simple. Don't use Facebook. Get phone numbers.

100% true sometimes they just say they don't remember their local numbers in this case they are basically tourists , i think its not always the case more of an excuse to me but in that case she added me right away while sitting next to her and on her laptop

Couldn't agree more. The whole "Facebook offer" on her part is a brush-off. Keep trying. If a girl's into you and values you, she'll give you her phone number. Period.

Facebook itself is not necessarily a bad thing and can actually be a useful tool in getting laid from afar, i.e. - If you're in another city and will be going to her city on vacation, it's a great way to get in touch, especially if you haven't been texting regularly. But on the night, in the moment, no way. If she suggests Facebook, just laugh and say you don't have time for that kind of stuff.

FB-only contact after the initial meet generally isn't a good sign if you want to pursue them. If they do give you FB-only then you need to work your way up from there, get their phone number and after that you can text or call, depending on the girl. When doing FB contact the trick is not to spam messages, you want to give them a reply and let them come to you (otherwise you'll get nailed by the needy part of a woman's internal checklist). If they don't within 24hrs then they really aren't interested or you have your work cut out for you.

There's no such thing as a facebook, or an email close for that matter. Try harder and go the full mile.

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Facebook is a tool. If you meet a girl and she is into you but for some logistical reason you can't fuck her and your phone is broken and her phone is broken then you can ask for her facebook, but email is better. The reason why these girls flake is because you had no connection with them in the first place.

Hi all thanks for your replies , i have just deleted them and it's done i have done some more Number closes it seems more solid to me , so now they lost the chance to meet the most interesting guy in the city . Next
and thanks for all

Never send more than 3 in a day. Two at lunch or two at dinner, but never 3 before lunch.

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