| 1st Post. K so long story not short. I lived in a town for few months of the year, as a winter gig. Had a thing with this girl, we'll call her A. Talked to her for a bit and slept with her, was her first, so she is now attached to me, and so needy that I feel no attraction to her. Couple nights before i leave town until the next year, and i manage to have a quasi threesome with an 8.5 (we'll call her PG) and a 7 (she can be FG). Bang PG but not FG for who knows what reason. Feel insane attraction to PG (8.5) and quite a bit for FG (7) but leave town for 5 months, many hours away. Have great text convos (separately) with them both for a night, sexual, etc. They joke about coming with me, sailing away etc. but then I decide to tell them (seperately again) that I can't talk to them because it's too frustrating to talk to them without being able to have them in bed. They both reciprocate and agree that it's best if we stop talking, somewhat reluctantly though. They both also said there's always next year and they'll be waiting (5 months away). Now i know i played this right, for the time being, but I am going insane not being able to text/snapchat them as they are both very funny and good looking. Still talking to Girl A because i don't care what happens but it doesn't help. Now here is where i need advice for a few different scenarios.
Should i reinitiate contact with 1 or both of the girls from the threesome?
PG I feel a lot of attraction, she is playing somewhat coy, but after we broke contact, she favorited a tweet from a few months ago that could be interpreted as sexual. She would bang right now if i was there but I am more concerned about keeping her as an option for next year.
FG again, i like a lot but she is more forward i.e.. (come back, we can have sex everywhere. i'm coming to you (jokingly) etc.) She is a safer bet to try to continue long distance talks, but also want her as an option next year.
Also what should i do if they reinitiate contact?
And any advice on how to ease the withdrawals. I'm trying to find girls and a job in the town i'm in but it is tiny (5000) and i'm in a real rough patch right now mentally. Tried to use Girl A to ease pain but doesn't help.
One more and maybe the biggest thing you guys can help with. Is no contact until next year the best way to keep them interested? I gave them the time of their lives, that I know, but would occasional contact throughout the summer be better than no contact. My thought process is that no contact will allow me to surprise/remind them about that night when i get back to town and have them ready to go right away. I know they both said "there's always next year"/"i'll wait for you" but i'm still worried about them losing interest. What's the best way to keep it?
Fuck me that was an essay! Thanks guys
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