Would I go from opening to a smooth transition to a DHV?

It seems really choppy, and I crash and burn when I try to move from one subject to another.

Could you go into more detail? I don't think that you really crash and burn everytime you change the topic w/ out transition. Hell, in every conversation their is some unrelated random shit that will sort of rise as topic. It seems like you're too hung up on the desire to smoothly transition everything. A smooth transition can be as simple as "That reminds me of my friend...." then go on with a story that has nothing to do with the previous topic and watch noone notice or care about the randomness.

You can:

- Use her or her group's response to your opener to change the subject, that's why opinion openers are great.

- talk about something you notic, apparently spontaneously, about her or her group. You can neg her or do some cold reading.

- use transitions like: "That reminds me of...", "That's crazy, because,...".

- go into your next routine without transition.

Right, that's a good way of going about it. Even if the situation has NOTHING
to do with your story, ALWAYS use something like: "oh, that reminds me..."
or "Oh yeah, i just remembered...before I leave, you gotta hear this. It a
crazy story--when I was younger, this guy tried to bully me, right?" ...etc.

Or, you can try this--this is from my AFC days when I used to use A LOT
of canned material. I make great transitions, though. Check it out:



OPENER:
Hey, guys, would you ever date a guy
that is still friends with their ex?

--cut them off.--

Well I have to get going in a sec, but
the reason I'm asking is that my friend
Dave over there, has this really jealous
girlfriend, and she found a shoe box under
his bed filled with pictures of him and his
ex girlfriend. She goes: BURN THEM! or
I'm going to break up with you. Wtf is up
with that?

--Roll off, then cut them off.--

Wow, this is great. You guys remind me
of "The View!"

--Roll off, act like you’re leaving.--

By the way, Have you known each other for a long time?

You know, I can tell you guys are best friends because…
--Roll off--

Aw, forget it. I’ll give you guys the best friends TEST.
But before I do, did you guys see the fight out side?

--no, what happened?--

Two girls were fighting over this short redneck kid
Named Ronald. It was crazy, they were really going
At it; they were pulling hair and everything. And the
Guys was sitting back watching the whole thing and
Loving it. It was insane.

--Lock in--

I only have a second, my friends are waiting for me,
But answer this question for me: Do you guys use
The same shampoo?

--they look at each other, then cut them off.--

Forget it, I already have my answer .
I can tell that you guys are best friends by two ways:
You look at each other before you make a decision,
And you guys make the same facial expressions hahaha.

--let them laugh--

Would you guys ever date a guy named “Ronald?”

--let them talk--

I’m asking ‘cause my brother knew this guy named
“Herman” for a while. No body paid any attention to
Him and girls were kind of repelled by him. So one
Day he changed his name to “Rob,” and he suddnenly
Became a ladies’ man, and just became the coolest
Guy ever. It was the weirdest thing ever.

--let them talk--

So get this, his first girlfriend was 5 years older than
Him. I thought that was a bit much.

--blah blah--

What do you think about older guys going out with
Younger women?

HER: --I think it’s okay, but there should be a limit. –

What would you say the limit is, like 3 years?

HER: --more than that.—

Damn, what kind of relationships have you been in?!

HER:- hahaha no, not THAT old!—

Okay, okay, what about older women dating younger
Guys?

--blah blah—

Okay, how about you help me out with something.
*GO INTO JUSTIN STORY*

--Talk to them for a bit--
(See where the convo goes).

--magic trick.—





FYI The Justin story is about a good
friend of mine, how has a sister that's about 22. She's
a babe, and she was all over me. I'm not even kidding,
guys. This girl was SERIOUSLY into, and it kinda creeped
me out, to be honest. Anyways, this story has all of the DHVs
and attraction spiked embedded in it.

Hop that helped, buddy.
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It's a personal experience that I had with a good friend of mine. his sister
is about 22 years old, and she really had something for me! This was like
a big problem--he was my best friend, and his older sister was coming on
to me, and I didn't know what to do.

This story has all of the DHVs in it, and makes a for a great conversation
discussion.

main points:

*Best friend that does anything for me (leader of men).
*Older woman (very hot) is attracted to me (pre-selection).
*I felt guilty if I kissed her (willingness to emote).

Those are three main attraction switches. I'm missing two:
*Willingness to walk away (this should be triggered by body rocking)
*Protector of loved ones (this can be triggered by separate DHV story).


It's a good piece.

Alright guys, thanks. Especially you, .EnVy.

Mostly what my problem was is that i find no way to continue the conversation or move into a DHV after the initial conversation sprouted from the opener.

I think this cleared it up.

No, problem buddy. If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me